Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
My counsellor has known my landlady for years as we live in a small town and they're in the same age bracket and made mention of her poor long suffering exhusband at our last session. I mentioned to her during our argument today that I would have to speak to him about her ultimatum before I could make my decision in the hope she would feel humiliated enough to put a stop to all this nonsense so maybe he's the power of authority here.
I met someone today who's offered me a place to live temporarily if nothing else becomes available in time.
I mentioned to her during our argument today that I would have to speak to him about her ultimatum before I could make my decision in the hope she would feel humiliated enough to put a stop to all this nonsense so maybe he's the power of authority here.
I thought the counsellor we are talking about is a lawyer respectively a legal professional?
... since you, oceangirl, said in one of the last threads, that you'll apply online for being called back by a advisory centre.
Lawyers aren't usually called counsellors - unless they are in Australia.
No, Liss just began having therapy or rather counselling sessions for sexual abuse so I think she is talking about that counsellor. She has made no mention of a legal advisor in this thread that I can see.
Actually a legal adviser couldn't go blabbing about the landlady's ex husband either. It wouldn't be professional.
I will check to see if I missed anything. It's possible
- and for the case that he is a therapist and the landlady's husband is a former client and it was something he told him confidentially, then it is even something he could lose his job over -- and it would be justified.
My counsellor has known my landlady for years as we live in a small town and they're in the same age bracket and made mention of her poor long suffering exhusband at our last session. I mentioned to her during our argument today that I would have to speak to him about her ultimatum before I could make my decision in the hope she would feel humiliated enough to put a stop to all this nonsense so maybe he's the power of authority here.
I don't think the ex husband is a former client, Liss just said the counsellor knew of him because he was in the same small town
I read it as Liss hopes to humiliate the landlady into changing her behaviour by bringing the counsellor into it, which is not the role of a counsellor at all, any kind of counsellor. Presumably she means the landlady knows the counsellor knows about her ex husband and will feel embarrassed. Obvioulsy her ex husband is none of the counsellor's business. His only business and only 'authority' is in his role to Liss although I wouldn't see counsellors as having any actual authority anyway. It's just a job like any other.
How would it benefit me just to pay the extra money she is asking
Hexagram 6.5>64
Yes to me it sounds like the situation has deteriorated past any possible resolution and yet Yi seemed hopeful
Line 5 does say good fortune in arguing, negotiating, changing to 64, things aren't settled yet.
Odd that Yi says that
I wasn't hoping to humiliate her in terms of discussing her per se but a bully never wants to be found out do they.
So my landlady knows I'm going through trauma therapy for sex crimes committed against me as a young girl.
She also knows I lost one of my jobs through no fault of my own, she also knows I'm constantly looking for work and work when I get the chance and I also told her I can barely afford to feed myself because she keeps harassing me for more bond money.
I have never ever been behind in my rent or asked to be. The landlady also knows I have car repairs that need doing and actually owe the mechanic for the last job - not much but I do owe him and am trying to find a way to get the money for further car repairs so I can keep my car on the road so I can keep working when the opportunity arises.
Just an hour ago she left a note for me - either start giving me extra money every week so I can accumulate a bond from you or you have a month to move out. Of course she also knows that to find a rental anywhere near here is almost impossible.
I went to see my counsellor today, apart from the fact that he does know her, he's appalled at the behaviour does to me as a tenant but didn't give me a solution because clearly there isn't one but it does help to talk it out. I'm pretty clear in myself I don't want to be here but wonder if the offer of alternative accommodation is right for me or if it may result in another unstable situation marred with difficulties
Lawyers aren't usually called counsellors - unless they are in Australia.
No, Liss just began having therapy or rather counselling sessions for sexual abuse so I think she is talking about that counsellor. She has made no mention of a legal advisor in this thread that I can see.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).