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I appreciate this perspective. I was a second mother in some ways. Not a good one.This leads us to 50. The Caldron which I see as a container that holds all essences - a sacred soup made up of all possibilities, all perspectives And in your case all your family and their ideas. Perhaps as the resulting hexagram it is emphasizing that you should be able to follow your own truth and they all should follow theirs, we’re all in the soup together - and it takes all kinds! Perhaps this gives you a hint as to how you should be around them - say that you have your own ideas but say it in a mild way and don’t make any effort to convert anyone. Absolutely refuse to engage in debate. Focus on the good. Perhaps even though you are not trying to convert them to your way of seeing, the very fact you can remain calm and confident may awaken them to seeing things differently after all.
The things you can understand about what is going on is to realise that you are being bathed in the light of A Rising Sun (35). A time where things can flourish. Events will happen outside of your control and further Marrying the Maiden (56) is directing you towards a phase of completion and advocates that you embrace whatever comes while reflect deeply on the flaws that exist in yourself or others in order to promote a new harmony.The first question was a vague "help me understand what's going on with me"
54.1.2.6> 35
In the relationship with your younger siblings, you are bathed in a cloud of Transformation (50). You will have little influence in how the relationship plays out and here 54 again charts a path for you that will move you towards having unacknowledged needs met. Your inner rumblings are still at work (54.1) and are a work in progress. Here though at 54.3 there is a sense of inner rebalancing becoming available for you and a strong call for you to walk tall and walk your own path. Stay focused on accepting what is and what will be rather than what has been or engaging with any ideas of punishing others or imposing your will excessively. There is nothing you can do and no advantages in you dwelling in this relationship (54.6)"Yi please help me understand the relationship between myself and my younger siblings"
54.1.3.6> 50
Seems to me Tarot, horoscope and I Ching align well.Tarot and horoscopes (which I wish not to depend so much on but for now are comforting) say I am on the verge of a huge internal shift but will have to sacrifice an entire way of thinking, being that is holding myself back, to look at big picture.
thank you my_keyHi kestrelw1ngs
What a brave thing to do and at the same time, I can only imagine how frightening: leaving one life behind and having to start again. I wish you well in your search for self.
realise that you are being bathed in the light of A Rising Sun (35). A time where things can flourish. Events will happen outside of your control and further Marrying the Maiden (56) is directing you towards a phase of completion and advocates that you embrace whatever comes while reflect deeply on the flaws that exist in yourself or others in order to promote a new harmony.
yes!!! the inner fears, doubts etc are a mental prison. its time for a prison break and who cares who clutches their pearls about it.New positive changes are beginning to rumble from deep within (54.1) and it requires of you in your solitary world to promote internal fortitude (54.2) and to embrace harmoniously and live the the diversity of your situation. Remaining bound by your inner world will not be advantageous for you (54.6)
Rosada I feel so excited by this interpretation, despite the inner resistance -Wow, cool story, Hartloper! Helps me imagine how the leap from 54.6 to 50 might manifest.
Now I’m seeing 54.1,3,6 as showing how the lifeless ritual these family reunions have become may be 50.Transformed by some sort of ritual that includes everyone. I think of the Christian ritual of ”taking communion” together and also how frequently the IC mentions blessing from eating together. I wonder if there is some sort of shared activity around food that could revitalize the original spark? I’m thinking the next time you have to sit at the same table with them - or even on your own when they gather in your mind! - drink a toast with absolute clear intention like a magic spell: “To Family!” Everyone is included even though they may not realize what they are agreeing to here but if you do this you may see a shift in the feelings like a tide flowing back in.
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