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Thinking about this love letter...I quickly think of his current girlfriend and what an appalling intrusion this letter would be from her perspective. I would dearly love to send it but deep down, I don't think it would be right. I'm sure others my think life is what you make it and it's worth taking risks, but I think I may be constitutionally incapable. mmm....but it's still 14.5 though isn't it...?
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I'm glad you bought this up, I think its entirely in the spirit of 14. Hex 14 doesn't mean grab what you want regardless, what others have should be respected also. The fact that you feel constitutionally incapable, that deep down you don't think it would be right, is in my view your real wealth here.
wow, this kind of situation seems to be the prevailing theme this week hehehe lol
just some practicle advice, do NOT send him a love letter and do NOT persue him..that's basic common sense when it comes to women and men, but especially in this kind of situation. Sit back, talk to friends if you need to get it out but wait for him to come to you.
try asking the i ching, "how should I behave in order to draw him to me?" Because the love letter wasnt the recommendation from the IC was it?
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ok, I will give you some practicle advice but it would help to know just HOW much you "get on like a house on fire"
does this mean you have been physically intimate?
if so,...stop it. (and I am speaking from VERY recent experience here)
actually, if you have been with him, you DO need to write a love letter, but not the kind you are thinking of. I would suggest writing him a dignified letter that breaks it OFF with him. Do not do it in an attacking way or accusatory....
the thing is, you have to be willing to accept that he might agree with you ending things..but I suspect that you will become much more attactive to him when he sees that you love YOURSELF.
treat yourself the way you want him to treat you.
then "standstill"
and wait.... patiently
he will either come or not come..but if he comes, you have shifted his perspective of who you are and how he must interact with you.
hope that helps
My gut is saying this is a totally unique situation, it speaks to my spirituality, creativity and vitality - but my moral sensibilities provide the cold shower.
KgW
Certainly the framing of the question is an important part of the consultation. I was just pointing out that posting one's own rules on everyone else's threads is appropriate behavior for someone dealing with Saturn, the planet representing Law and Order.
Personally, I find the I Ching will give an answer to any question I ask, ;-)
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