New question about an old course! Relationship! Relatinship! Relationship! 15.5.6->53

[Sashamarie]

New question about an old course! 15.5.6->53

Hello all

It has been a long time since my last discussion with iching.
I have had a break up several months ago and my last post was about that.
During this period I was just waiting with no action and there was no connection between us at all, and we are totally unaware of each other.

I just asked iching "what would be my fate and future regarding this guy?" And the answer was:
15.5.6-->53

What do you think?
After several months, any changes?

Your help will be very appreciated:bows:
Thank you!

 

[Sashamarie]

Any ideas yet?

 

[caliluck]

I interpreted it as it may seem it's going in the direction you want with the man you have a past with but it will decay. With the accents take a light action and love is here. When it changes to 53- learn from the past and take your time for new developments. Gradual development is needed for anything to come about.

I interpreted as keep it moving, you'll gradually get what you want relationship wise, just don't think it's with that ex. Learn from that relationship.

 

[Tim K]

Hi Sashamarie,

I think Yi is saying - forget him. Decisively cut all the ties and pursue your own affairs.
I got the idea from reference to 'use of arms' [15.5] and 'arms to punish own cities' [15.6].

I read 53 as allow yourself to be changed by outside world. (In the opposite hex 54, the outside world is resisting the inner change, in 53 you are).

If I'm not mistaken the guy in question is a foreigner or lives far away, then it gives more weight to 15.6 - try to find someone local, a native.

 

[Sashamarie]

Thank you caliluck for your answer, but does hex 53 not related to marriage? I got this idea from the readings by Hillary here.
I'm confused

 

[Sashamarie]

Thank you very much ashteroid, you are right, he is now far away from me but not a foreigner.
I will really appreciate if you could tell me more about hex 15(humiliation or being humble?) what does it have to do with a question regarding future of a relationship? Especially when it changes to 53?

 

[Tim K]

Being humble, moderate, grounded as innertruth said in the other thread.
Well it says (here Yi doesn't answer directly, but gives you advice on what to do) turn your dreams down a notch, be more real. H15 is also about 'proper social conduct', so as I've said earlier - forget him.
Attend to your own affairs. In time, gradually [53] I think you will find someone.