Should I go? 40UC

answeredquestions · Jan 25, 2012

I shouldn't have asked a yes or no question.. :duh:

Should I attmept to go on a date with X? - 40 Unchanging.

Some unchanging hexagrams get me confused.

Like this one..
Would love some advice :hug:

cris · Jan 25, 2012

If there is still something where one has to go,
Hastening brings good fortune.

Oh yes!

(Plus, what have you got to lose?

)

answeredquestions · Jan 25, 2012

hastening... to act quickly... That scares me...

and what about:

If there is no longer anything where one has to go,
Return brings good fortune.

cris · Jan 25, 2012

Going on a date is having somewhere to go

dancing white ferret · Jan 25, 2012

Yes, I agree with Chris. I say go for it

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mythili · Jan 25, 2012

40 uc may not be saying a clear yes, go. More likely its saying that you're free to make the decision either way - just make the decision, get on with it! Untie the knots - perhaps you're obsessing too much about it? Doesnt mean it will work out well, doesnt mean it wont work out well.

Sometimes, its also meant to wait, find your direction, and once you have found it, then go in that direction.

Well, perhaps ask Yi again without the yes or no factor.

Lavalamp · Jan 26, 2012

You're not tied up, so go ahead. Make the invitation somewhere familiar you know is liked, and allow a graceful way to turn you down for whatever reason. Be on time.

answeredquestions · Jan 26, 2012

mythili said:
40 uc may not be saying a clear yes, go. More likely its saying that you're free to make the decision either way - just make the decision, get on with it! Untie the knots - perhaps you're obsessing too much about it? Doesnt mean it will work out well, doesnt mean it wont work out well.

Sometimes, its also meant to wait, find your direction, and once you have found it, then go in that direction.

Well, perhaps ask Yi again without the yes or no factor.

This is what I was afraid of, but it is ringing very true...
I will ask another question.
Case closed :bows:

Thanks everyone

...life can be translucent

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