Clarity,
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London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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You know, this reminds me of something that happened to me a while back. I had a close friend who had bipolar disorder. He would go through periods where he was volatile and unpleasant to be around. When that happened, he would often withdraw or disappear, sometimes for days or longer. He explained that when this happened, he was doing it to protect the people around him, as well as himself. I found it difficult to deal with, but I came to realize that it was not about me at all, and that I shouldn't take it personally. (I had to accept that I had no control over it, either.)Hi,
Is X purposely pushing me away ? 35 1.3 6 going to 55
Whatever your responsibility was, it was nothing that you did "wrong".What was my responsibity in his distance towards me ? 59.4 going to 6
Let it be, leave him alone (at least for now), and don't do anything. There's nothing you can or should do about it. It may not look or feel like it, but what's happening here is for your good. (I mean that in a positive way, not like "you're being punished for your own good" .)what can i do that would benitit both of us 6.2 going to 12
It's interesting you used that expression, because the desire for things to "go poof" seems to be common among people who are in the midst of a bipolar episode.He has done this before, and always and I mean always its been up to me to reel him back in...lol That was why I was wondering if he just wanted we to go " poof " or something.
I'm not sure I understand what "that direction" means. Can you clarify what you mean?Is there a question you can suggest that I could ask to get some insight that direction?
After all, am just a friend. We are not in a relationship or anything.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).