Hi all, I asked about my relationship in question, a general overview, and I got hexagram 16 with changing lines 2 and 3 and turning into hexagram 32.

What do you guys think? I wanna think it's a positive one but I'm not sure if I'm being objective. Can someone help me?

Thanks!:bag:

morakt said:

Hi all, I asked about my relationship in question, a general overview, and I got hexagram 16 with changing lines 2 and 3 and turning into hexagram 32.

What do you guys think? I wanna think it's a positive one but I'm not sure if I'm being objective. Can someone help me?

Thanks!:bag:

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At a glance itlooks to me like you need to get moving on this....stop sitting and thinking about it, making images about it..its like you are waiting for a sign to make a move or something (16.3) but thats not good you could be waiting forever and 16.2 also i think indicates its time to get on with it.

If you are waiting for someone to make a move, don't. Move yourself instead. i see the 32 as as perhaps indicating you are perpetually building up images of this...you may be going round in circles ?

This suggests that your relationship may not be going so well, therefore to be absolutely realistic that when it starts to sink then the only choice left is to abandon it. Hanging on to an illusion will only cause distress, so don't hesitate and don't look to him as if he were a saviour.

morakt

The key here is to see the signs in front of you and act accordingly. Apparently there are signs of a problem. If everything were great you probably would not be asking. If the signs are negative, they probably are not going to change, and you will need to act accordingly.

Gene

There are wide variations in the "good" and "bad" of this relationship from what I would read. You have to be judicious in weeding out which is which and you are having trouble knowing where or when to get a handle on the overall trend. Which is evident in your question. It would seem that whatever the "outcome" of this situation it is somehow your responsibility? As though you have to know when to act, or whether there is something real to act upon. It appears that the predominant feature right now is your own confusion. There doesn't seem to be anything else to really hang your hat on.

Could I ask please what you were seeing as the "positive" feature that made you hopeful -- either in the reading or in what the relationship signifies to you?