Clarity,
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My thought process is that the man I ultimately will commit to deserves the best of me, as I will accept nothing but the best for myself...so, I've done some serious work and introspection to be ready for that relationship. It wasn't easy, but I know it's worth it. Why is it that most men can't do the same in return? Don't they want the best? Or are they satisfied replaying those dysfunctional tapes over and over with different women each time? I'm mystified, lol!
If there's a defect, would one not try to correct it instead of repeat the mistake in the future?.
Let's set aside the John Grey gobbledegook Mars/Venus differences for a second. If there's a defect, would one not try to correct it instead of repeat the mistake in the future? If I knew I had a habit of hooking my golf swing, I'd call in a pro and properly learn to hit a ball. I'd want to improve my golf game.
It is not that different from those issues we know are defective within ourselves. Instead of learning to not be so clingy or insecure as that destroyed relationships in the past, many continue the behavior even after having the awakening moment to know that it's not healthy. That's where I'm confused. If it's broke, fix it. It's not gender biased.
I know quite a few couples who have been very happily married since a very young age, and they know nothing about any of these self-improvement notions. It's not a matter of effort - it's pure luck. And when I said earlier on that some people do find partners after actively seeking them, well that's also chance. Many people actively seek them for ages and come up with nothing.
Let's set aside the John Grey gobbledegook Mars/Venus differences for a second. If there's a defect, would one not try to correct it instead of repeat the mistake in the future? If I knew I had a habit of hooking my golf swing, I'd call in a pro and properly learn to hit a ball. I'd want to improve my golf game.
It is not that different from those issues we know are defective within ourselves. Instead of learning to not be so clingy or insecure as that destroyed relationships in the past, many continue the behavior even after having the awakening moment to know that it's not healthy. That's where I'm confused. If it's broke, fix it. It's not gender biased.
It's an interesting set of comments, most of which I agree with. But what do you define as "luck"? We assign this word for things we don't understand but there will be host of clear reasons why these couples found each other and how the longevity was sustained. Nothing occurs in a void. Whether a person is following a religious/spiritual belief or if there is zero awareness of anything outside football or cooking, there can be a union - but that union might be occurring at very different levels of awareness in terms of wants and needs, therefore with totally different criteria. Self-improvement also occurs at many different levels of consciousness and it gets more difficult as you progress simply because culture by and large is not predicated on higher consciousness - at least not yet!
But I think there are always clear, logical reasons combined with a more esoteric reasoning at play. If you consider astrological influences significant enough to play a part then there are certainly many other and social, planetary, cosmic and psycho-spiritual influences about which we have yet to integrate and even be aware of. In that sense "luck" and "chance" is a bit of a cop out.
So, my Jupiter being in IV, I will meet my partner through family/extended family, in my hometown; or someone who has the same roots as me would be my partner. Am I right?I've noticed it time and time again - your own personal luck for where/how to meet a partner is wherever Jupiter is in your chart (= whatever the House describes, that's the situation where you'll meet a partner).
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).