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Hilary said:...it should be possible to look at the relating hexagram that each line points to and find the attitude to use to create the desired result.
Back to Hilary's advice - "look at the relating hexagram that [this] line points to and find the attitude to use to create the desired result." In this case that's 23 - Stripping Away, removing from, exposing or being exposed. Vis a vis Herrmyte's question: stripping away the customary protection of a lawyer?
Several people (Trojina and Rosada, at least) have sensibly pointed out that what's most important here is getting the best result for Herrmyte's son. Could that be what Yi means by, "The child governs the home"?
Here's what you said in WikiWing, the "Hexagram as a whole" section:This is a good exercise, but it has to be done correctly. The main message of 23 is seen in line 5, and the Image: The one above is giving to the one below.
The other lines are about the consequences of not giving to the one below.
To me that sounds like you think 23 overall could have two main messages.Keep in mind that the Stripping is a Taking from
The Image and line 5 show Giving.
(M.E)
I hadn't seen it in such a clickety-clickety way with the reading, though.Yes, that's what I said ….but you're saying it like it's a new idea
To me that sounds like you think 23 overall could have two main messages.
Right now we have an agreement to claim our son on taxes every odd year. So being able to claim him every year will make a large financial difference. The difference in terms of scheduling is the current 3-4-4-3 schedule versus what she proposes now a 4-3 weekly schedule in her favor. So shed have him from Sunday morning until Thursday morning dropoff at school every week. It is significant in several waysAlso - hang on - does this seem odd to anyone?
I'm perplexed why anyone, namely your wife, would find it compelling to go to court to change the custody arrangement......by a whopping 10%.
I wonder what her reasoning is? Does 50/50 cause some logistical problem (schedules, transportation, etc.) that 60/40 would somehow solve or make easier?
Am only guessing at what this means, but if it means it'll be harder for your ex-wife to get this change through, that seems significant and might play into both readings. Hexagram 50 can mean consolidating a change, and 29 can mean repetition.He said the burden for a standing court order modification is 'substantial change in circumstance' and not the lower standard 'best interest'.
I hadnt read this until now but it is a good interpretation. I have recently told her that I will let her have some of the more minor requests. I am only standing firm on 50/50Yes, that's what I think,
or in one sentence:
Give or things will be Taken from you.
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