Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
What is IRL?So I wanted to talk IRL, but she replied through voice messages which is way more indirect.
What is IRL?
And are you saying that all your back and forth on FB is way more 'direct' than someone leaving you a voice mail? I'd think that at least with voice mail they actually have to say the words, 'I unfriend you', whereas with FB they only have to push a button.
Thanks very much for your response. Yes, she's protecting something about herself, I triggered her by being myself, open and honest. I think she has some issues that are unresolved which I came too close to. I didn't mean to and also we were able to talk about it but i wanted to have more clarity and safety about the past disturbances in our friendship and therefore still wanted to explore more in an actual conversation rather than through bloody WhatsApp.Why did she unfollow me? 44.2.6 > 31.
She is protecting something (herself, her feelings, her ego, pride, could be anything honestly) and has done so in an aggressive (and somewhat regrettable) way. However, line 6 could also refer to you? Maybe saying that you came on harsh or strong and so that’s the “why” of pulling back. Regardless, Hex 44 is often about a relationship that is very difficult to keep in a functional state because someone or both are just too willfully or difficult or the interaction consistently will be difficult. Hex 31 can be about an emotional response, something that’s feeling-based and so sometimes it can be reactive. I would maybe focus on 1) how you delivered your message to her 2) what she thinks she needs to protect or defend so that you can’t “touch” it
How to position myself towards this childish behavior: 19.1.3.4.6 > 50.
This interpretation I’m not as sure of. I think it could be saying to center yourself and approach only with an attitude of friendship, or just not approach at all. It’s like a pull between maintaining your own center or being near this person. It looks complicated to be able to have the harmonious connection and does to some degree rely on your doing some things that feel like being the bigger person.
That I totally get. Thanks for clarifying!In real life it means, I wanted to have a conversation over a cup of coffee.
Acronyms have been such a learning curve for me and a new one seems to pop up every week. I just ask my kids WTH they're talking about!That I totally get. Thanks for clarifying!
FYI: it's sort of like: IRL asking a friend, who used to be your BFF*, WTF they are talking about?I just ask my kids WTH
How to position myself towards (my close friend's) behavior: 19.1.3.4.6 > 50
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).