Hello...

It's been some time since I have written although I often poke my head in to keep in touch. I've had this mad attraction to someone at work for some time now, and some of you may remember it. Or not! Recently, I finally had the opportunity to talk to him at a staff christmas party. I knew he was ready and willing and open. It all started off well.However, I buckled at the last minute and did not speak to him when I had the opportunity and now the communication door has been slammed shut by him. A complicated situation, but one that has me reeling.

So I asked Yi - Is it advisable to communicate with D, and received:

47.3 >28.

Feedback welcome!

I think your answer may be saying you are giving yourself too hard a time, stop doing this line 3 says you are hurting yourself looking for things to nourish and support you where they cannot. Or maybe you are giving yourself a hard time because you feel you messed up the situation and now you're getting wound up over it. I think the Yi is just telling you to stop hurting yourself. I don't feel your answer encourages communication with him, I think you would do better to take care of yourself a bit now and chill these feelings are getting too much (28)

hexagon said:

So I asked Yi - Is it advisable to communicate with D, and received:

47.3

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47.3 talks about reaching for the wrong thing, reaching for the thing that gives you pain, and not seeing the good thing you've already got on the inside.

So, I'd say that this desire to connect with the person in question is an example of what 47.3 is talking about.

So I asked Yi - Is it advisable to communicate with D, and received:

47.3 >28.

Stop thinking about him, take a break, go find something else to occupy your mind as you are getting lost.

Yes, yes, yes to all of you. I have a tendency to beat myself up - and as Dobro says - the good stuff, the stuff inside that gives us joy is what I must bask in - not something outside myself that cannot give me what I want. With your help and with the Yi, I am letting go of expectation. I am reminded of something I read recently that states:

"Every decision you make - every decision - is a decision about Who You Are. When you see this, when you understand it, everything changes. You begin to see life in a new way. All events, occurrences, and situations turn into opportunities to do what you came here to do."

Neale Donald Walsch
Author of Home With God