2.5 and moving on from heartache

[openheartsf]

I've been stuck for a while now in some roundy roundy thoughts about a particular person. I know we will never have the type of relationship I want and the friendship has suffered and now it's time to let it go. I really WANT to let it go now. I asked the yi "how can I get over x?"

I received 2.5 (Receptive) changing to 8 (union/holding together).

I'm not great at interpretation but here are some ideas...

holding it together brings good fortune?
being discreet/reserved keeps me held together?
I should be receptive to keeping our friendship together?

I'm not sure what I am meant to hold together. Please help!

 

[sophie]

It's trying to tell you not to force things with yourself, you can't whip yourself into getting over someone, it will happen with time and if you remain receptive to other things and people. In the meantime, just bear with the difficulty for now, keep going, one foot in front of the other, and cultivate moderation in yourself.

The yellow undergarment is also a reference to not showing yourself to him deliberately - don't avoid him but don't seek him out either.

It is your own self that is being held together with that gentle, unforced approach to healing a heartache. That might be good for the friendship too, but for sure it will be good fortune for you.

Good luck. It's a hard time to have go through, but it does pass

 

[willowfox]

"how can I get over x?"

I received 2.5 (Receptive) changing to 8

By being realistic and just keeping to yourself.

 

[openheartsf]

Thanks!

Thank you Sophie and Willowfox,

It makes sense in it's simplicity no?

Sophie you said "don't avoid him but don't seek him out either."

That part is more difficult than you know! We share a mutual hobby which I love and I don't want to give up. It's been hard the past YEAR because I HAVE been avoiding him. I don't want to, but at the same time it's harder to move on with a constant reminder.

I have ups and downs with this situation, but it'll pass I'm sure. I have been praying for guidance and focusing on the positive aspects of our friendship, which is the best I can do at the moment.

Thanks for your advice!