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[fatequeen]

I asked: Did (name)'s wife see the latest email I sent him?

 

[Trojina]

I asked: Did (name)'s wife see the latest email I sent him?

no idea you'd have to ask (name)'s wife

if you got no idea about the answer why would anyone who doesn't know 'name' or his wife

they can guess if you want to hear guesses i guess but a guess is just a guess, is that any use to you..well you could hazard a guess yourself i guess it would be as good as anyone elses guess.

 

[fatequeen]

I dont know what you mean. I sent the guy an email and he hasn't responded to the last response I sent him. I was wondering if the reason was maybe because his wife intercepted the email.

And for the record... I am not interested getting more involved with this guy unless at the very least he gets separated.

 

[Trojina]

I mean noone can tell for a fact if his wife intercepted the email. This is the sort of question where guesses or general guidance is no good to you is it, you want some kind of private detective remote viewing service...and all you'll get here is guesses IMO

If you have no idea what the answer means why would anyone else is what i mean.

 

[fatequeen]

Listen.. the Ching typically gives me very accurate readings. I think this one may be spot on as well given the translations I've read.. but I'm coming here to get others opinions/confirmation. Why the hell do the people here continue to inquire the Ching and converse about it unless they've had very accurate readings in the past that have given them great insights/turned out to be true???

I just want to know if this guy's marriage is not in good shape (even before I came on the scene) and I might have any chance at all with him in the future.

 

[Trojina]

Listen.. the Ching typically gives me very accurate readings. I think this one may be spot on as well given the translations I've read.. but I'm coming here to get others opinions/confirmation. Why the hell do the people here continue to inquire the Ching and converse about it unless they've had very accurate readings in the past that have given them great insights/turned out to be true???

I just want to know if this guy's marriage is not in good shape (even before I came on the scene) and I might have any chance at all with him in the future.

what is your reading then ? why do you ask for others readings and not give your own ?
People are more inclined to give their view when the questioner also gives theirs...not that i would in this case but others might.

Anyway how will you ever know this is accurate re the email without asking him or his wife ? You won't will you so whats the point in asking, you may as well wait till he or she tells you which seems unlikley so you just have to face the fact you ain't going to know for a fact but will just be doing some guess work...thats all..

 

[fatequeen]

what is your reading then ? why do you ask for others readings and not give your own ?

I have at times...

Anyway how will you ever know this is accurate re the email without asking him or his wife ? You won't will you so whats the point in asking, you may as well wait till he or she tells you which seems unlikley so you just have to face the fact you ain't going to know for a fact but will just be doing some guess work...thats all..

I will probably see him in a few days and if he doesn't tell me himself (which he probably will) I will probably ask him.

Now go watch some football... I can smell the smoke from your brain. I'm sorry I made it work so hard... lol!

 

[ginnie]

Intrigue

From the way your question is worded, it sounds like you'd like the I Ching to serve as the fly on the wall at their house and report back to you about what it sees there.
I don't know you and any previous posts, but that's the way your question sounds.

Hilary once pointed out to me, "Well, did you ask him?" Being direct is a wonderful quality, and we sometimes forget that. That is, we can get used to asking Yi everything, which only makes life more difficult in the long run, Fate.

 

[Trojina]

Also the bigger question is about whether you get to be with this guy and what your best way to respond to/receive him is when he approaches you.

if you asked about your best course of action with regard to him and Yi told you to withdraw from him you'd gain alot of insight about his motives..it would save yourself the bother of asking lots of little questions about emails and so on.

of course you can ask whatever you want I'm just saying

 

[fatequeen]

From the way your question is worded, it sounds like you'd like the I Ching to serve as the fly on the wall at their house and report back to you about what it sees there.
I don't know you and any previous posts, but that's the way your question sounds.

Hilary once pointed out to me, "Well, did you ask him?" Being direct is a wonderful quality, and we sometimes forget that. That is, we can get used to asking Yi everything, which only makes life more difficult in the long run, Fate.

Yes, I would love to have a conversation with him but 1) I'm not sure I will see him ever again especially if his wife has seen the email (ie, he might not/she might not let him come to the venue anymore).... 2) he hasn't responded to my email. I have very intense feelings for this guy and the limbo is not helping.

 

[ginnie]

I asked: Did (name)'s wife see the latest email I sent him?

You would do better to ask your question from your own point of view instead of framing your inquiry in terms of what other people are doing or thinking.

 

[fatequeen]

Also the bigger question is about whether you get to be with this guy and what your best way to respond to/receive him is when he approaches you.

if you asked about your best course of action with regard to him and Yi told you to withdraw from him you'd gain alot of insight about his motives..it would save yourself the bother of asking lots of little questions about emails and so on.

of course you can ask whatever you want I'm just saying

OK I asked: What is the best way for me to respond if (name) approaches me again?

I got Hex. 49... no changing lines.

 

[rosada]

My first instinct is 49 with no change lines indicates he isn't going to approach you again. However, if you do hear from him then 49 is Revelation so I think you are being encouraged to speak up and tell him who you are, what you're looking for and ask him to be equally open with you.

-rosada