60.4.5>54 what am I here to learn?

[Narset]

I recently became disabled after an accident and I’m now tremendously struggling emotionally, spiritually, financially, romantically. I’ve been truly despondent and I asked the I Ching “what am I meant to get out of the remainder of this lived experience?” partially trying to understand why I’m still here and if there’s a reason I survived. Getting 60 feels rough - it feels like it confirms that I will always be limited in how far I can progress in all these areas I’m struggling in. 54 to me is usually about not occupying the position I want to, and these two together seem to say to me that the lesson I’m still meant to learn from this life is to be OK with not getting what I want and not being able to do the things I want to do. It very much makes sense as something I’ve always needed to learn but this has been a very harsh way for the lesson to manifest. Knowing that I am limited (60) and won’t end up in the position I really want (54) feels extremely demotivating to me and I would love any thoughts anyone has on these hexes/changing lines that offers some hope.

 

[rosada]

Love light and blessings to you Narset!
60 - 54 suggests to me that you start by exploring what your 60. Limits really are and what your 54. Position in the grand scheme of things truly is. 60.5 maybe saying you are not as limited as you may now be thinking, or perhaps that you will learn to create a satisfying life even within these limits.

One of the life lessons of 54 involves becoming aware of how much one is influenced by the environment and the people and thoughts that surround us. Putting up pictures your heroes and the people that inspire you and doing some sort of daily spiritual ritual can hugely strengthen your ability to stay mentally strong.

Perseverance furthers.

 

[Narset]

Love light and blessings to you Narset!
60 - 54 suggests to me that you start by exploring what your 60. Limits really are and what your 54. Position in the grand scheme of things truly is. 60.5 maybe saying you are not as limited as you may now be thinking, or perhaps that you will learn to create a satisfying life even within these limits.

One of the life lessons of 54 involves becoming aware of how much one is influenced by the environment and the people and thoughts that surround us. Putting up pictures your heroes and the people that inspire you and doing some sort of daily spiritual ritual can hugely strengthen your ability to stay mentally strong.

Perseverance furthers.

Thank you Rosada!

 

[marybluesky]

Hi Narset

You've asked about the accident's lesson, and 60.4.5> 54 is a beautiful answer:

54, as you see, shows a situation where you don't come first and should accept what happens in the outer world. That's the context.

The primary hexagram's lines are both promising. They indicate that with peaceful and sweet measures, you can honourably go on in that 54ish context.

Good luck