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New LDR relationship that is going well but the person has an energy that is a bit "dull" at times, which leaves me with a vague feeling of unsatiety or dissatisfaction, questioning if it's right for me. It's an incompatibility of personalities/drives maybe. Our friendship started over a year ago and the only readings I did then and 6 months later were exactly the same: Hexagram 4.2 - 23 (Youthful folly - Splitting Apart)
Only a few months ago I decided to try to pursue something with this person and now we are in a relationship. This is a very loving partnership and I am not ready to "get rid of it". Of course I would prefer that this feeling wouldn't be there at all and can't help but fear what it means... Is it just a matter of time?
So I asked:
"How to deal with my doubts OR is it possible to live with them?"
Hexagram 61.3.6 - 5 [Inner Truth changing to Waiting While Nourished]
According to line 6 this seems to suggest that it is an impossible endeavor. What I aim to is impossible, will fly away or has no ground in my inner truth.
According to line 3 (that is dominant?) I should accept that anyone in our lives will make us feel both good and bad... And firstly center myself out of my anxiety and accepting all the feelings.
Waiting (5) of course speaks for itself... It's the time that I need to find the answers.
There was another one before:
"Will this feeling of unease in expression/communication pass or persist? Is it possible to build a relationship with him?"
Hexagram 3.1.2.6 - 59 [Difficulty at the beginning - Dispersion]
(line 2 dominant: the woman pledges herself after 10 years. This one is more about communication between us that I am taking my time to feel completely comfortable with. Lines are not very auspicious but I'm taking the advice of patience (2) because I have collected fruits from it so far and I feel things are improving. Maybe some people will think this just means no.)
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I know we can't change our hearts, our "inner truth". Doubt is real in me, that feeling is real, despite all good and desire I feel for this person. It's not going to "disappear". But I can't let go of this person either, neither I want to. I asked this to the oracle based on what people say: "everybody has doubts and everybody dislikes something about their partners", but the oracle seems to say that it is unrealistic to persist/believe in the relationship.... Also, my last relationship ended 6 years ago and was one with loads of doubt on my part. I'm quite scared of the feeling.
Only a few months ago I decided to try to pursue something with this person and now we are in a relationship. This is a very loving partnership and I am not ready to "get rid of it". Of course I would prefer that this feeling wouldn't be there at all and can't help but fear what it means... Is it just a matter of time?
So I asked:
"How to deal with my doubts OR is it possible to live with them?"
Hexagram 61.3.6 - 5 [Inner Truth changing to Waiting While Nourished]
According to line 6 this seems to suggest that it is an impossible endeavor. What I aim to is impossible, will fly away or has no ground in my inner truth.
According to line 3 (that is dominant?) I should accept that anyone in our lives will make us feel both good and bad... And firstly center myself out of my anxiety and accepting all the feelings.
Waiting (5) of course speaks for itself... It's the time that I need to find the answers.
There was another one before:
"Will this feeling of unease in expression/communication pass or persist? Is it possible to build a relationship with him?"
Hexagram 3.1.2.6 - 59 [Difficulty at the beginning - Dispersion]
(line 2 dominant: the woman pledges herself after 10 years. This one is more about communication between us that I am taking my time to feel completely comfortable with. Lines are not very auspicious but I'm taking the advice of patience (2) because I have collected fruits from it so far and I feel things are improving. Maybe some people will think this just means no.)
--
I know we can't change our hearts, our "inner truth". Doubt is real in me, that feeling is real, despite all good and desire I feel for this person. It's not going to "disappear". But I can't let go of this person either, neither I want to. I asked this to the oracle based on what people say: "everybody has doubts and everybody dislikes something about their partners", but the oracle seems to say that it is unrealistic to persist/believe in the relationship.... Also, my last relationship ended 6 years ago and was one with loads of doubt on my part. I'm quite scared of the feeling.
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