lets talk about sex- and the I ching

[hbhind]

Questioned I ching re: new romantic possibilities (not necessarily love, very casual but empowering) after I had met a man on a trip in the fall -(this was after last years much needed break up with my partner,)and me going through lots of changes, the trip sort of capping off or awakening something in me, again not so much love but a powerful strength in my own identity- we just kissed but didn't go all the way- and now I'm sort of kicking myself about that- but there were circumstances- again we only chit chat every couple weeks or so - very casual but he interests me

Next Question asked was would I see him again soon?
initially I got #1 the Creative which I thought very positive (esp since we were to meet to work creativly as well), but our plans to meet in Dec have fallen through due to sched conflicts and Holidays

I questioned the I ching a 2nd time "would we re-unite in the spring (since that is the next time I could return)for fun??"
I got #51 Shock/Thunder changing to #7 the army- with changing lines 1, 2 & 4 which makes me ask what path to take- should I bother trying to re-unite or just let what was be- ???? I worry he may not be on the same page due to sched conflicts- or am I just being impatient. should I ask and try set up a reunion in the spring or move onto something new???

then I thought lets ask "what is my best course for sleeping with this dude?" again no love question here just awesome hotness
I get #9 small restraint with changing lines 1 & 2 to #53 gradual progress- so indeed that is at least clearer. restraint I understand , gradual I get. but how does one hold back the thunder in one's pants???

 

[willowfox]

Question asked was would I see him again soon? I got #1 This is a very positive answer, indeed suggesting yes, so you will have to wait and see how things develop.

I questioned the I ching a 2nd time "would we re-unite in the spring (since that is the next time I could return)for fun??"
I got #51 Shock/Thunder changing to #7 the army- with changing lines 1, 2 & 4

The answer suggests self control and patience, it advises you not to busy yourself, just wait for him to get back to you as he seems to be bogged down at the moment but spring is a good possibility as Hex 7 represents the time around beginning of May.



then I thought lets ask "what is my best course for sleeping with this dude?"
I get #9 small restraint with changing lines 1 & 2 to #53

This says that you do nothing, you let him take the lead and control, thus the maiden is taken by her master.

 

[hbhind]

thanks

being taken would be nice- thank you for the clarification
since I usually do the taking is both wierd and freeing to not have to take control.