Please help with 41?

[kdedeaux4]

After reading a post here regarding Hex 31 and dreams, I was prompted to ask IC something similar...

I have very strong feelings for an ex b/f from a very long time ago. I've always had the hunch that we would most likely end up together again at some point, but have not pursued this relationship. Lately, I've had a plethora of dreams with this man in them. Sometimes he's a critical character in the dream, sometimes, he's just "there" for whatever else is going on in the dream, some of the dreams are feel-good, some are filled with anxiety, etc, etc...but he's been showing up pretty regularly in them.
Which prompted me to do a little investigating into the current circumstances and I was disappointed to hear that he has recently started dating someone

I asked IC for insight into my connection with this man and received Hex 41, lines 1, 3, and 5 changing to Hex 57.
Hex 41 indicates diminishing? That's not what I hoped to hear However, lines 1, 3, and 5 seem somewhat positive. Interesting line 3 speaks of one person of three leaving to go off on their own(but I suppose it probably means me, as HE'S the one dating someone now).......and 5 speaks of positive omens, I think?

I would be grateful for additional thoughts or insight on this reading!!

~Namaste~:bows:

 

[willowfox]

I asked IC for insight into my connection with this man and received Hex 41, lines 1, 3, 5 > 57.

Line 41.1 warns you to be careful in how you approach him and actually deal with him at the moment because I presume the breakup was a sensitive issue for him.

Line 41.3 Okay, he now has a new "friend" but that is to be expected but this suggests that it is you that will find a new partner. But do you really want him or would you like to expand your horizons and find another for a change.

Line 41.5 says your luck is changing for the better whether regards him or just finding a new man.

So, you are going to have to wait and see what happens next.

 

[meng]

I asked IC for insight into my connection with this man and received Hex 41, lines 1, 3, and 5 changing to Hex 57.

I'd be encouraged by this reading, but would expect to most likely lose the girl (I'm a guy) in the process. But I'd ultimately see it as learning along the way.

One of 57's meanings is a seal, which means you're not going to change the stripes on a tiger. And three won't travel well together, so one of you will have to go. Another of 57's meanings is to gently penetrate with understanding.

 

[kdedeaux4]

Thanks!

Thank you both so much I very much appreciate and value your insights into this:bows: