Potential boyfriend

[star_crazy]

I asked if the man in question would be a good partner for me I received ta yu, 14
I then asked will we make each other happy i received huan , 59
any opinions appreciated

 

[willowfox]

Yes he has the potential to make a good partner but the happiness bit comes from cooperating together in a selfless way.

 

[star_crazy]

This is like choosing a kitten. Yes, take this one, if he'll have you.

Like choosing a kitten ? I am not quite with you on this twilight

Thanks again willowfox for your help much appreciated!
Let's say I haven't always had the best judgement in the past when choosing potential partners.
This guy is travelling Europe at the moment and due back in a few weeks, we met at my sisters wedding in summer. He backed out of the first date as he was worried he would hurt me or fall in love as he said he felt strongly towards me. We have stirred feelings up in each other that neither of us have felt in a while. We have both had difficult previous relationships and are both cautious I feel. He seems like a genuine guy I was hoping the I ching would reiterate what my gut is telling me. I have done a lot of work on myself over the last year and its finally paying off I think
I have had poor judgement in previous relationship's letting my heart rule my head.

Sorry for the essay just thought its nice to have some background information.