Should I do everything to stay in the U.S. or should I go back to my country? Hex 44. 2.6. to Hex 31

[oraclelinx]

Hello. I cannot understand the message Yi is trying to give to me. It seems to be a contradictory message and it doesn´t seem to be responding my question. What are your thoughts on that? I am undecided about moving or staying. Both options have pros and cons and everything is uncertain in pandemic times. Its very hard to decide which is better for me right now.
I am on a student Visa with the option to extend my stay in the U.S. I feel quite comfortable living in the U.S. right now but I did not find a job for next semester. I would either have to stay using up my savings and hope to get a job on campus soon, apply for OPT beforehand, or go back to my country where I have no job, but could live off my savings for a longer time until I find a job there. My options at this time are not that great because of the pandemic etc. On the other hand, I met a man with whom I fell in love with, but he says he doesn´t want to comit to a serious relationship, so I consider that relationship is over, nevertheless, does the reading have anything to do with that? Please help!

 

[Matali]

Hello, yes indeed with 44 -31, I think Yi tells you about this romantic relationship, that's for sure from my point of view... 31 shows the attraction that exists between you two, and 44 shows your willingness to go further with him, but your momentum has certainly been stopped because this man, maybe, is not yet ready. On the other hand, I can't tell you any more...

 

[my_key]

Hello oraclelinx

Should I do everything to stay in the U.S. or should I go back to my country? Hex 44. 2.6. to Hex 31​

Hex 31 provides a context for your enquiry that suggests you are being influenced by a strong attraction at this moment in time.
Hex 44 suggests being open to what comes, rather than having a fixed framework.

The confusion you are experiencing may be coming up in you as you have asked Yi to offer guidance on 2 questions at once:

Should I do everything to stay in the US?
Should I go back to my country?

It may help you to ask some simpler questions such as :
What if I do all I can to stay in the US?
What will my life be like if I stay in the US?
What will my life be like if I go back to my country?

or you may prefer to conjure up some more precise, simple questions for yourself.

Good Luck

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[oraclelinx]

Hello, yes indeed with 44 -31, I think Yi tells you about this romantic relationship, that's for sure from my point of view... 31 shows the attraction that exists between you two, and 44 shows your willingness to go further with him, but your momentum has certainly been stopped because this man, maybe, is not yet ready. On the other hand, I can't tell you any more...

Yes. That´s exactly what i thought! It is weird because I was inquiring on another topic. Can that happen? What is your take on that?

 

[oraclelinx]

Hello oraclelinx

Should I do everything to stay in the U.S. or should I go back to my country? Hex 44. 2.6. to Hex 31​

Hex 31 provides a context for your enquiry that suggests you are being influenced by a strong attraction at this moment in time.
Hex 44 suggests being open to what comes, rather than having a fixed framework.

The confusion you are experiencing may be coming up in you as you have asked Yi to offer guidance on 2 questions at once:

Should I do everything to stay in the US?
Should I go back to my country?

It may help you to ask some simpler questions such as :
What if I do all I can to stay in the US?
What will my life be like if I stay in the US?
What will my life be like if I go back to my country?

or you may prefer to conjure up some more precise, simple questions for yourself.

Good Luck

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You are right!! Too many questions and a lot on my mind certainly! I think I will ask a more concrete question! Thanks!!

 

[oraclelinx]

You are right!! Too many questions and a lot on my mind certainly! I think I will ask a more concrete question! Thanks!!

 

[Matali]

Yes. That´s exactly what i thought! It is weird because I was inquiring on another topic. Can that happen? What is your take on that?

My opinion is that you are in love. I think you have the right intuition and in a way, you are the only one who understands well 44 - 31... In fact, the answer is not so far away : if this man had agreed to commit now, you probably wouldn't be wondering if you were leaving the United States... There is a very strong connection between your question and the answer.