Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
Suppose I am being courted by someone who is going through a divorce, and not quite emotionally available yet. And I ask "what would I think of me if I were in his shoes".
And I wonder if it would be more useful to just ask that question, for example "what are my beliefs or motivations in this situation?".
So this way of asking the question opened my eyes to the importance of something I previously hadn't thought about. Is it truly how she sees things? Who knows? But asking how I would see me in her circumstance gave a more helpful answer than what I got just asking how does she see me.
Diamanda, you misunderstand me. I would never ask what somebody thinks of me I would ask him directly or not worry about it.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).