This is the 3rd time that I've gotten extremely interested in someone due to a magnetic attraction. One of them ended up in an engagement which was eventually broken off. After the latest failure, I asked the I-ching "what lesson I need to learn from the current and past situations." I had doubts about this one because the guy belongs to my gym and is obviously younger than me. I mistook his interest in helping me with weight training as an interest in me personally.

My interpretation of the lines are "if you keep going down paths that feel wrong, you will be punished" . I say this because I will still have to see him several times a week and feel embarrassed about the whole situation.

If anyone has a different idea, I'd love to hear it because it may help me avoid going down the wrong path in the future.

Thanks for taking a look.