Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
He looked depressed and said he was very tired all the time. I have grave doubts about this so called ""partner". She has taken him out on the last three days - to two antique fairs and a garden centre. She says he has to keep sitting down !! She wont accept any help from me or his brother, I believe to keep me away from him. I think also that she is suspecting that he is sick of her. he has said one or two derogatory things about her to me and when she asks what was said he changes it immediately.
Of course at the moment he is reliant on her. So, I asked 'Y' what best action I should take to help him to full recovery? 'Y' answered Hex. 43.2,5, > 55.
Yesterday I asked 'Y' What do I need to know about the situation that he is in and received Hex. 30.6 >55 again.
I have been wondering if I should get in contact with Social Services and feel that 'Y' is telling me "Yes" Also "What is my best plan of action" > H 31.6 > 33. He lives about 35 miles away so I can't just 'drop in' Some advice please, Thank you. Meigga
Thank you Trojina you are very kind but at this present moment my son is not physically able to do what he wants to do. He has had a very severe fractured skull, some brain damage, Insertion of Pacemaker followed by flu all in the space of 8 weeks and is eating about one quarter of the amount of food that a toddler would eat.
meigga
Also, when he was discharged from hospital I was told that he would more than likely be offered some help at home. She has decided that no help is needed even though she will now have to go back to work. I think too that she is aware that their relationship is over but is determined to hang on.
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In response to Trojina's questions:
How do you think getting in touch with Social Services would give Meigga peace of mind?
I think getting in touch with Social Services would give her peace of mind first of all because she feels the I Ching has advised her to do this. Therefore if she doesn't reach out to them she might continue to be wondering if she should. Even if they say they can't help her she will at least know that she didn't overlook some crucial step, she will know she has done everything she can think of to do.
What do you think social services would do for her?
I don't know what is offered where she lives but here in California there are various programs available that often go under utilized simply because people don't know about them. Like a visiting nurse. I see that meigga now mentions there was talk of him being offered help at home but the girlfriend/caregiver turned it down. There may be other services available. I have a friend who was injured and unable to work. Social services got her a stipend to cover her gas and electricity bill for 2 months. It doesn't hurt to ask...
.Which department do you think she would go to?
I don't know what the names of the departments would be where she lives but as Meigga suggested it, she probably has some idea of who she is thinking of calling. If not she could call City Hall and explain what she is looking for and most likely someone could direct her to the right department
Law? You think this is a matter of law? What?
I'm not totally clear what you are asking here. Perhaps if you use the word "government" in place of the word "law" my sentence will make more sense.
you asked if you should get in touch with Social Services, but it seems to me that you even if all they tell you is that the law can't help
I was referencing the fact that a grown man can not usually be legally required to see a doctor and also that there are laws that prevent hospitals from discussing a patient's condition without his consent - even when the person asking the questions is the mother. Thus speaking to social services about getting him help may not lead to much without his approval.
If he is actually being abused by the girlfriend perhaps the law/government could step in and do something. We don't know and that's why I agreed calling social services could be a good idea if only to find out what the possibilities are.
I hope this helps.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).