Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
In the past every new person who was working with us was easily manipulated by the girls and I was left alone to cope. I never said anything bad about them, holding up the rule to not say bad things because what would be the difference between me and them? The new person is a male. I know the guy, he is okay albeit has tendency to overindulge in alcohol (probably due to not very happy marriage) and I believe he might be prone to manipulation by them. I asked the Oracle whether should I tell him more or less what to expect from the girls:Soon we will be getting a new person to our team.
But also asked whetherShall I tell him the truth? Hex 23.6>2
What more experienced Yjing readers see as the more beneficial option here?Shall I *not* tell him anything about them at all? Hex 36.1.3>2
Thank you.. I'm just so tired with the "long run", nothing ever changed that girl is undermining everything in this team and others are blind to it. As an empath I'm suffering from it even more. I'm looking for new job but no luck so far. I thought that the first casting will mean open conflict somehow..Both the answers sound "sweet and sour" to me.Shall I tell him the truth? 23.6 > 2 He will support you but the overall imagery is not that great. This combination is a painful one.Shall I *not* tell him anything about them at all? 36.1.3 > 2 This sounds a tiny bit better. A bit less pain here. He will find out for himself, in the long-run.
It might well mean that. And the winner of the conflict will be whoever is higher in the company hierarchy. Who is senior in position at work here? Because this is who will win.I thought that the first casting will mean open conflict somehow
I'm pretty certain they're just pretending to not see it. Nastiness is hard to miss. But a lot of people turn a blind eye because they need to keep their jobs to survive.that girl is undermining everything in this team and others are blind to it
So the initial hex 37 I think says its a good idea, but the outcome of 63 says that this is dangerous path - once I will 'cross that river' there will be no turning back (hence the fox with the water under his head- danger). So I am more or less in doubt here. Maybe its better to keep low profile.Hexagram 37.6>63
Funny enough, I just did exactly that on Friday late afternoon... She is in trouble because her landlord is ''selling the place'' and she needs to find something quickly. Like in 2.5 half weeks. Rental market in Dublin is extremely bad. She was renting a room. Well, sufficient to say is that with the same salary as her and almost 3x bigger rent I can afford to not only rent a spacious (and now free of beetles ) place in a good location but even save enough money to fulfill my wishes. Of course, I am not spending money on drinking every week... she had enough of time to save and look for a flat but instead they went on a holidays to Spain to drink and party. So, it's just her own doing... I am not judging, just observing.Omg! I had the same thought come floating through my brain. I wrote something to you to that effect but then thought, "That's crazy!" and deleted it. What I was thinking was that you first make a point of detaching, like you don't even look up when you hear office chatter, let it become obvious that you are not a part of this game, you're just there to do your job.
So, she doesnt look healthy. Those kind of people have a very similar look to their faces. Like living with negative emotions leave a permanent imprint on their faces. Its hard to explain, but very obvious to me. I told her on that day - ''you look tired recently, are you sleeping okay?''. She was like ''yes, yes 6 hours'' etc... Poor soul. Not my job to heal her, albeit I try to wish her the best even for the hardship she creates for me daily.Then when there is a quiet moment you say something to her that shows you see her and that you have compassion for her, something like, "Are you okay today? Yes? Oh, okay, good." Anyway, not sure what that would do, I just think it's interesting you and I came to a similar conclusion.
Hexagram 02 Effect:
The model of the moment: There are things behind the scenes of which you are unaware. Let others lead the way for now, child. Help from associates is crucial at this time to your success. The course usually recommended for such times: Yielding to the forces at hand is appropriate. Following, rather than leading, is indicated as the best course for the time and circumstances. Do service to an existing cause, but do not strive to create a new one. Don't allow yourself to become consumed by what could be; rather, deal with what is
2. Again, detach, maintain a non-judgemental attitude. The less emotionally involved -magnetized! - you are to these people the more easily a new job will open for you.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).