Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
I asked what would the outcome be if I let him back in my life. Long story short...What started out as a great relationship, then a surprise pregnancy and now a beautiful baby girl. Since becoming pregnant, I found out many things about him that he hid from me - chemical dependency, dating others while we were together, and it seems, mental illness. He was living with me since the baby was born, but after a sleeping pill binge the other night, I made him leave. He was in drug rehab my ninth month of pregnancy. I thought I really wanted him out, gone for good, but my heart is really mourning the loss, so I asked the question.
This seems like such a positive answer, which is really throwing me. My head says run far and fast. Can anyone offer some insight into this?
How much do personal opinions sway how we see an answer. I mean the question was what would the outcome be if she let him back into her life. Now c'mon in any other context 58 would look pretty good - but Topal and Wfox being sensible,looking at the facts have decided 58 says 'don't'. Well i can see where your're both coming from but still.
I do the same thing, i think everyone does but sometimes it just makes me wonder are we giving our opinions or saying what we think the Yis answer is ?
The email is why my heart is so confused right now - the sudden lucidity in his own behavior.
Saying someone is an addict can mean many different things according to the type of addiction which we don't know. I can't see that having an addiction and a mental illness automatically make one unfit for family life at all. Obviously Firehorse knows the reality of that.
And why shouldn't he be lucid ? Hes just a person with an addiction problem, hes still a full human being, no less because hes has an addiction or mental illness.
stop it you will give yourself a headache
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).