11.1.3.6 > 4 about a house I'm moving in

[lolelole]

Hello,
I need to leave my flat in a couple of months and I've just found a nice place in the same area of the city,
with a reasonable price.. then suddenly I've realized it could be not that perfect.. it's located just next to a popular cafe' , where I use to hang out with friends.. and I'm seeing a married man who could find impossible to visit me without any privacy.. the place is open from morning till late in the night.

I know I shouldn't be influenced by such a thing in the choice of 'my house' but I am,
and besides the fact I don't know where this relationship will go I don't want make things more complicated than what they already are.
so, asking what should I do about this place, I've got 11.1.3.6 > 4

I can't understand if the 'collapse' described in line 6 it's gonna happen if I go there or if I don't.
or maybe in any case. but the impression I have from this reading is:
live your life without thinking of matters you can't know, "do not define a course to take, but be ready for every opportunity"(Lise, line 6), that could mean if you like the house, take the house and don't worry for such things you can't preview.

What do you think?
Thanks,
Lucia

 

[lolelole]

After reflecting on it - I've made the reading few days ago - I feel I must follow my istinct about the house without thinking of possible consequences I can't really preview and, more than all, can't influence my life. Said that, I've asked today wich would be my best attitude about the man I'm seeing:
7.6 > 4
It seems I'm really in a 'not knowing' state. 4 is always difficult to understand for me.
Am I simply a kid in front of something new.. or somebody who doesn't want to see things like they really are?

I've already said he's married, I add he looks confused, he feels guilty about seeing me while his marriage is still alive despite not happy.. he tells me we should stop then he comes back, and I'm trying to give him the time and the space he needs to understand what he wants.. but I've the feeling he's not able to take on any responsibility about us at the moment. And for responsibilities I mean the simple fact to admit he wants this relationship with me.

I've read interesting stuff about 7.6, it's time to establish real foundations being careful not to involve inferior people. I see this answer like an invitation to put down roots (the new house) without worrying about the income with him. But, is he the inferior people? or maybe those are my doubts and afterthoughts?

Thanks for your help.

 

[Tim K]

h7, Richmond: an army that rights wrongs and then stops is rare, more often there is vengeance, so to control the situation discipline is necessary.

I think 7.6 tells you that the war(active operations) is over, pay off your helpers with money and move on.
He gave you experience, but now it's time to part ways. You need to transition from being a leader to just a playful child. I mean you can't change this man any further.

The reverse would be 4.6 → 7, which says forget your past experiences and just do it. The child becomes an experienced leader.


About the house? 11.1.3.6 → 4
It kinda gives the same idea
1) Yes a good house
3) You loose something, you gain something - that's life
6) I think it speaks about this man, the relationship will end. (I'm biased so i think it will be good for you, I believe that one should not have hidden relationships and especially with married people, well 1-2 months at max.)

And now let's look at the transitional hexes:
11.1 → 46.3 (Ascending) → 7.6 → 4
Again there is this 7.6 going to 4 in the end.

Move into this new house 11.1 promises new opportunities that will come with this house, 46.3 says it will be a fresh start ( 3. But empty cities - art thou bold to fill? Crowley) but the old city will fall (7.6).

 

[lolelole]

Thanks Astheroid,
very interesting what you say, I like the idea of a fresh start.. less maybe the end of this relationship,
but deep inside I know it's for the best..
thank you again,
L