11.3,4 for the end

[dragona]

Hello...wondering how would you interpret getting hex 11.3,4 into 54 for asking wether a certain communication has come to an end?
Found some good thoughts in Bradford`s translation, but he leaves things somewhat unsetled...and I would REALLY NEED to know
Thanks :bows:

 

[literunner]

Hi-
Yi could be advising to be at peace (11) with coming second right now (54) and to put up with the ups and downs of it but stay sincere and cooperative with this person, without an agenda per se.

You could ask the Yi what you should do about it for now, see if that gets more insight into your original question.
Hope that helps!
LR

 

[dragona]

Hi-
Yi could be advising to be at peace (11) with coming second right now (54)
LR

Thank you, very insightful, especially if you have not red my previous thread :bag:
But when emotions are in the play, obruptness of it can hardly make one stay at peace. Yes, did ask what can I do to fix our communications but did not like the answer YI gave: 61.4,6 into 58 ....I spoke way too much as it is :bag:

 

[literunner]

Hi,
61.4.6<58
Perhaps it is about using your own inner truth, what you know to be true for yourself, to communicate your joy and happiness. Could also be said as come from your own inner joy and happiness in your communications by using your inner truth, being happy being the authentic you - without insisting the other think like you or accept what you are saying and not trying to push your own agenda. Line 6 is the one about not being too pushy about your inner truth, don't make promises you can't live up to and don't try defining how things shall be, nor demanding a response or change with your words. Don't be over ambitious with your inner truth.
Take delight in the freedom to interact and connect; express your own inner truth with joy and allow the other the same. Use communication as a joyful act of creative sharing and exchange.

Does any of that ring true?
LR:bows:

 

[dragona]

Hmmmmm....it sounds very comforting from my new best friend but in overall, I got very dissapointed with how things went, never pushed for anything other then this one time and perheps he had done me a favour by cutting me off.
Inner joy is non existant, nothing to radiate at the moment and since it takes 2 to tango, it looks kinda pathetic if one of the dancers is not present at the dance floor while music is still playing :bag:

 

[pocossin]

How would you interpret getting hex 11.3,4 into 54 for asking whether a certain communication has come to an end?

Hexagrams 11 and 54 are hexagrams of togetherness, so I'd say 'No', but hexagram 54 implies a disadvantageous position, so communication will start again but not with the same degree of connection. Line 3 points to fluctuations in the relationship -- sometimes hot and sometimes cold -- but one can still hold to one's center; and line 4 points to neighbors, the friends you have around you now.

 

[dragona]

I am a bit confused...although other readings confirm resolveness on a total distancing and working out other personal issues, when I ask to what extent will things get reversed if I wait, I get hex 13.1 into 46 and an oppinion will there be a 2nd chance on this communication 50.6 into 32!
Seems too auspicious even, and my intuition is telling me it is not over yet. Things are not adding up for me somehow. Could I be right, I wonder...