11.5 -> 5 Should I meet her tonight?

[ilemacedonia]

Hi people,
There's a girl I met via internet and this evening she has a promotion of her book in a place nearby. She invited me twice to come and meet her there. On the other side, her friend told me that she is a kind of girl who very quickly get bored with guys who wants her and do things for her like in this case my going to her promotion. My inner conflict was "should I go tonight on the promotion and meet her there, or to meet her some other day".
I asked a question: "Is it favorable to go tonight on her promotion"?
I received 11 with changing line 5 which is really favorable, but than, the 2nd hexagram is 5 - Waiting. Even though I have experience with I Ching readings I must admit that I'm confused. Do you have some opinions? Please share it, I appreciate!

Thanks
Ile

 

[Tohpol]

Hi people,
There's a girl I met via internet and this evening she has a promotion of her book in a place nearby. She invited me twice to come and meet her there. On the other side, her friend told me that she is a kind of girl who very quickly get bored with guys who wants her and do things for her like in this case my going to her promotion. My inner conflict was "should I go tonight on the promotion and meet her there, or to meet her some other day".
I asked a question: "Is it favorable to go tonight on her promotion"?
I received 11 with changing line 5 which is really favorable, but than, the 2nd hexagram is 5 - Waiting. Even though I have experience with I Ching readings I must admit that I'm confused. Do you have some opinions? Please share it, I appreciate!

Thanks
Ile

Hm. 11.5 can be a little ambiguous in my view but overall it does suggest getting the timing right. I've often found that this means you are going in the right direction towards a woman / man in question (or even someone else in the future) and that you just need to bide your time and all will be fine. That could well mean choosing another day when things are less frenetic. However, there has been occasions when it was referring to my state of mind. In other words, the Yi was saying to me if you can't keep your centre and achieve peace in yourself then how can you expect to know the right situation when it does come along?

Taking the average I'd probably go. It all depends on your attitude. If she's asked you twice already then you're hardly being impulsive. But I'd go with no expectations or anticipations. Just enjoy the evening and be magnanimous and don't think about what's in it for you. This is her evening after all. And if she gets turned off by guys who are falling over themselves to please her then gently be somewhat enigmatic might be a good formula for something to build on later. No harm in creating an allure...lol

Good luck.

 

[ilemacedonia]

Hi Topal,
Thank you so much for your insights
These are wise advices. I also think that sometimes Yi refers to my state of mind and this could easily be, as you said, a time for clearing my insidiousness and what I want.
Actually, the thing why I'm hesitating to go tonight is the thing to stay 'mysterious' to her ) to cool her off a little bit, because judging from her astrological birth chart she's the kind of girl who like to be 'tempted' and a game of hot/cold is appropriate, at least in the first phases of meeting and getting to know each other.
I must admit that I have another reason not to go tonight, my favorite football team Barcelona, is playing a difficult game at the same time as the promotion, and I want to watch ) I can easy not go on the promotion, but I don't know does she'll have a hard feelings about that?! And does she would want to meet me some other time in the future, after this?! This are my confusions..
Maybe is time to ask Yi another question..

 

[ilemacedonia]

I asked Yi again: "If I don't go on the promotion tonight, will I have chance to meet her in near future"?
I received 57.2.6 -> 39
I think that Yi says that I'm hesitating too much and that I have inner blockages and that I must clear them. I think that Yi says to take action, maybe to go?!
What do you think?