17.1.3>31 Should i forget about her?

[kupeli]

Recently I had a short lived fling with a girl and some problems developed afterwards.But I still have feelings for her and I asked whether I should forget about her and move on and I received 17.1.3>31. Any interpretation is appreciated.

 

[Tim K]

17.1 → 45 (Gathering Together), Richmond:
The basis of circumstance is changing.
Correct continuance brings good fortune.
It is beneficial to go out of the gate to find associates. He gains merit.

17.3 → 49 (Radical Change), Richmond:
He lets go the boy and follows the man. By continuing in this he gains what he needs.

Both lines say yes - move on, you will find someone else, maybe an older/wiser person.

In the middle is 45.3 → 31 (Joining Together), Richmond:
Gathering with sad feelings. Aim is unfortunate yet moving is no error. There is some regret.
Forgive, forget and move on