19.2 to 24

[purpledawn]

Greetings!

I asked when will I find my husband and life partner and received 19.2 changing to 24.

What are your interpretations, please?

Purpledawn

 

[yxeli]

Hello Purple Dawn!

I would ask you a few questions, regarding the question you asked:

The I Ching does answer time questions, but sometimes ( alot of the time) we ask a 'when' question, Yi won't tell you 'when'. Instead it may give you a little snapshot of where your head is at at the time of asking. Where is this longing to know coming from? 'when' was your emotional state while asking?

In the I Ching, there is a concept called 'shi'. 'shi' means time. But not the usual sort of time that we think of, it means the 'time at the moment'. There are times to retreat (33), times to influence (31), times to feel wounded and to heal (36). This time isnt measured in months or days or years, this time is 'dao time'. What time are you in?

19>24 to me, is yi acknowledging your approach. 19 is a good hex to draw. there's a huge amount of potential in 19. but potential does not mean that anything will manifest. It just means that at this 'time', there is potential for you to go into the world and to look with responsible eyes at your current situation. Think about where the hunger stems from, to know 'when will i find my husband'.

24 often means returning to yourself. Maybe Yi is saying to you, that when you are centered, in your right dao, then the potential will be there. Desire has proven to be a big deal with my personal relationship with the Yi. Often Yi seems to jokingly point out, 'look kid, where the hell is this coming from? you need to grow into yourself a bit. Stop asking these desirous questions. You'll only get what you want by figuring yourself out first''.

19 is about responsability and teaching. 24 about returning to your centre. Your lovely beautiful self that just breathes, and is happy and content with just doing that. I think, like Yi does with me all the time, that rather than giving you advice about when your going to find your guy, its saying, take responsability for the potential by returning to yourself.

Ever notice that when your least desirous of a relationship, they tend to fall into your lap? when you feel really happy and confident in yourself, without needing anyone else, relationships seem to manifest? I think this is what Yi is saying here.

Instead of asking a passive kind of question, when will the universe give me what i want ( there no blame in that, i do it all the time, btw) why not ask an active question, what can i do to help get me where i need to be?


Bests,

Yx

 

[purpledawn]

Beautifully expressed, yxeli. Your response resonated strongly with me. And, I greatly appreciate you shifting my focus to an active inquiry. I did just that, asking, "What can I do in order to help me get to where I need to be in regards to having a husband?" I received hexagram 55 changing line 1 to 62. What are your interpretations of this?

Thank you kindly.
Purpledawn

 

[gene]

purpledawn

Basically, this line is telling you to get out there and socialize, and it will happen.

Gene

 

[yxeli]

55.1 is about finding an ally, like gene has said. from yijing.nl

Abundance is a question of following a guideline. It may start with an impulsive action, but after that it needs continuance. A great harvest needs hard and steady work, reliable cooperation and time. So if you find an ally, stick to him, work together. Do not change your course or enter new ventures, but go on the way you are going.

Go out and socialise, and maybe when you find someone who you think could be the 'potential' of 19, stick it out with that person. 55.1 reminds me of meeting someone who really helps you grow in ways you never thought possible. And remember the judgement, 'be not sad, be like the sun at midday'. 55 could mean that you may worry yourself away from the potential of this person, worrying how long it will last, thinking about it being over before its even begun. watch for that.be not sad.

Also 55.1 indicates an important partnership, almost 'fated', but one that may not be long term. People come into our lives to teach us things we need to know, maybe for a year, maybe for 10 days. maybe Yi is emphasising a need within you just to have fun with people for awhile, dont expect long term husband material, but do go out and meet and engage in finding a relationship. Even short term lovers can be extremely important on our path to finding a long term one.

Yx