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Hi everybody,
this is about a person I meet lately. I asked "what should I know about that relationship"
and I got 19.4.5 > 58.
This is not a romantic relationship but I feel that I am very biased to inteprent this reading. Is is not that i do not trust that person. It has to do with me and my fears. When I meet somebody that i think is a very special person I do everything I can to ruin that relation. (defence mechanisms)
I think that is says something very good about a very special connection, but I would like to hear your insigths too.
maria
19 suggests that it's ok, you can approach and be approached towards a fruitful exchange. Not sure there's much to worry about here. IC seems to say that you can go ahead and share some friendship! So, let your own specialness shine.
Topal
Give this person a chance to prove himself to you, do not interfere with him unnecessarily, so let him be, and he will show his worth. Doing this will then lead to joy and sharing.
I worry about my behaviour.
maria
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You'll only "ruin it" if you are determined to do so.
Topal
IThough your question is about your responses or reactions, it is still important to consider this other person, also in a generous and open way, if you would like an open exchange with him (if it's a him).
Hi Maria,
Your earlier response to Topal was "I worry about my behavior." I was just pointing out that, even though it is your behavior you asked about, it's still important to consider this other person in a 19 way, if you desire an open exchange (58) with him.
Maria, maybe you're trying too hard?
My point was only that there are two people involved in this meeting, not just yourself. My impression (and it's only that) is that you seem so focused on doing the right thing, being the right way, not being the wrong way, that you may forget how to just be yourself, and let him just be himself. Leave the rest to fate, and remember 61. Trust yourself.
By the way, Maria, it isn’t just you who is obsessed with doing the right thing and not doing the wrong thing. It seems to be a disorder most of us Yi-heads suffer from.
Thoughtlessness is one of the biggest causes of trouble. Not stupidity, not inexperience, not taking too much risk. Just think of all the things you would have done different if you had thought before acting. So be grateful for shocks, they hit you out of thoughtlessness. Many have been saved from disaster by a shock, or even from death. And once your mind is awake again, look back and realize the waste of a life with a sleeping mind.
That's funny.. it makes a picture in my head: the horse procrastinating.. should I go and run with the moon?
...maybe I wait... or maybe ... BOOM! and off she goes!
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).