26.3.4.5 10 Relationship Query

[Wairua]

Well this maybe a bit premature but my question is What can I expect from a relationship with X.

At this stage we've met once for coffee and text twice a day ever since. We live in different cities. Him in my hometown. We won't have the chance to meet again for a month maybe two.

Great taming seems quite appropriate. This slowness is not my usual approach to any relationship.

ine 3
'A fine horse for pursuit.
Constancy in hardship bears fruit.
Daily training, chariot driving, protecting.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.'

That's positive as I'm pretty excited about this potential.

Line 4
'Young bull's hornboard.
From the source, good fortune.'

Perhaps being made to go slow so things can't be ruined by not being ready.

Line 5
'Gelded pig's tusks.
Good fortune.'

This has me confused. Is it that he won't pander to me? He seems keen but a bit aloof.

10 Treading do I know how to work with this power... worries me. Am I ready to face another powerful man??? Will my fears get the best of me? Another question maybe.

Am I interpreting this correctly? Thanks for any insights. I've just got out of a big mess so I would appreciate any advice

 

[radiofreewill]

Hi Wairua,

Nice to see you back in action!

"What can I expect from a relationship with X?"
26.3.4.5 to 10 ~ Appetites grow as you prepare the meal.

I read line 5 as saying that he's a manly man who won't hurt you, but I agree with you on going slow with line 4 ~ rushing long-distance relationships rarely works out ~ and line 3 says that he enjoys the pursuit of you.

Going slow will help you keep your old fears in check, too, while, at the same time, giving him a chance to show just how sincerely interested he truly is.

I hope this helps and have fun!

 

[kash]

In my experience, line 5 talks about an indirect approach to something - in my case, solving a problem. I had it once in relation to getting back my deposit money from a nasty landlord who wouldn't pay it back. I was suing him and asked what will happen. In the end the court ordered the deposit scheme company the money was held with to pay it back to me without involving the landlord at all.

Line 4 talks about anticipating potentially problematic situation in the future and taking steps to resolve them before they become a problem. Line 5 is more about dealing with potential problems by making them no longer relevant.

Not sure how this will relate to your situation, but maybe it will make sense to you?

 

[Wairua]

Thank you very much for your thoughtful replies. I will think on them today and respond tonight.

 

[Wairua]

Hi Wairua,

Nice to see you back in action!

"What can I expect from a relationship with X?"
26.3.4.5 to 10 ~ Appetites grow as you prepare the meal.

I read line 5 as saying that he's a manly man who won't hurt you, but I agree with you on going slow with line 4 ~ rushing long-distance relationships rarely works out ~ and line 3 says that he enjoys the pursuit of you.

Going slow will help you keep your old fears in check, too, while, at the same time, giving him a chance to show just how sincerely interested he truly is.

I hope this helps and have fun!

Thanks heaps radiofreewill not quite back in action but heart and soul have lifted dramatically.

Appetites grow certainly.

I'd missed line 5 in that the "castrated" boar is not a threat and there is good fortune.

And yes maybe I need to show less enthusiasm so as not to disempower his in line 3. Definitely taking note there!

We hope to catch up next month so I will keep you posted. Thanks again

 

[Wairua]

Line 4 talks about anticipating potentially problematic situation in the future and taking steps to resolve them before they become a problem. Line 5 is more about dealing with potential problems by making them no longer relevant.

Not sure how this will relate to your situation, but maybe it will make sense to you?

Hi Kash, Perhaps the context works in the fears attached, I'm unsure but am happy you had a positive result.

You're right about line 4 we have talked about expectations. Obviously living in different cities is going to be problematic, there may be others that we haven't discussed it... but then we've only had coffee so yea might be a bit soon yet

But to be honest I think potential problems will be with me internally. I'll take the time to meditate on that as I think it's key.

Thanks so much for your time Kash as I said above I will repost and hope my situation evolves positively too. Arohanui :bows: