33.1.2.3.4.5.6 to 19 Retreat to Approach

[danceofthegods]

Ok so finally the elusive 6 lines changing cast has happened. I fantasized about getting 1>2 just for how rare it is to get all lines changing but this is really really an interesting cast too. Maybe more interesting because 1>2 is a progression while 33>19 seems a contradiction.

{{DATE: 13/10/2019}}
{{TIME: 10:03}}
{{TYPE: Yijing Reading}}
{{TITLE: which is the best way to act}}
{{PRIMARY HEXAGRAM: 33}}
{{LINE(S): 1 2 3 4 5 6}}
{{NOTES: }}

I asked: What is the best way to act (in regards to the situation with a man I like and we are currently not talking).
Retreat to Approach 33>19

Background castings (just so you know my train of thought if that is of interest):
what kind of connection do we have? 11 Unchanging
what do i need to know about our connection 25.1.4 > 20
as he has cut off from me, what would happen if in future i text him 14.1 > 50
what would happen between us if i cont to not msg him 13.3.4 >42
which is the best way to act 33.1.2.3.4.5.6 > 19


I gather it to be since all lines change that anything can happen. I can retreat and this leads to approach. I can approach adn this leads to a need to retreat later. A few days ago I asked a similar or same ques along the lines of what happens if I just let him go in my heart and I got 8 unchanging. So kind of similar. Let go and be united. At least that is how I took it. Kind of how the symbol of yin yang has a seed of good in the bad, a seed of bad in the good.

Anyone who is interested care to take a stab at this casting? I appreciate any thoughts, ideas, or speculations.

 

[Freedda]

... a man I like and we are currently not talking).

I am curious what you mean by this? Does it mean you are attracted to him, but haven't yet met? Or, that you're 'on the outs' with them - that you do know each other but are not getting along right now? Or something else?

OKAY, sorry. Looking at your other numerous queries, it seems you do know him.

 

[moss elk]

I asked: What is the best way to act (in regards to the situation with a man I like and we are currently not talking).
Retreat to Approach 33>19

Hi,
You wrote a long post, but didn't include anything at all about your own wishes and feelings on the matter. That is problematic.
Taken alone, I would see this reading as saying Oversee the Retreat.

But on the other hand, the other readings indicate something is possible there. But given that you aren't expressing any will at all, maybe retreat is best for everyones sanity.

What's the big deal?
do it or don't.
Sometimes two different paths are routes to the same destination.

 

[danceofthegods]

Thank you, Moss Elk, for your insight. I gave my thoughts on the reading...I thougth that was enough. I was not aware I had to tell you certain wishes or feelings more than that? I am not sure what you are demanding I divulge or why that is necessary beyond all the details I have already provided? I don't think I need to say more to be honest.

 

[danceofthegods]

I am curious what you mean by this? Does it mean you are attracted to him, but haven't yet met? Or, that you're 'on the outs' with them - that you do know each other but are not getting along right now? Or something else?

OKAY, sorry. Looking at your other numerous queries, it seems you do know him.

I was really confused by your question, actually. Glad you got that cleared up.

 

[my_key]

33.1.2.3.4.5.6 to 19 Retreat to Approach

From your comments you look to have a good handle on what the divination means for you. There is a a two-way flow of energy between primary and relating hexagrams.

Everything - all thoughts, feelings, actions, connections, and plans that you have about this situation needs to be amended. Focus on the new rather than the old. You will be rewarded with new opportunities and perspectives.

..... and then again it may mean nothing like this at all.

Good Luck.

 

[moss elk]

I was not aware I had to tell you certain wishes or feelings more than that?

Correct, you are under no obligation to share anything, to be open, or answer any questions.

I am not sure what you are demanding I divulge or why that is necessary beyond all the details I have already provided?

I wasn't demanding, I was pointing out something that was obviously missing, in my estimation, upon seeing your post:
Your own feelings on the matter.
The more information we have,
the better we can understand your situation.
YOU are a factor in the situation, so when you leave out the details of YOU (your feelings on the matter) there is a hole in the story, and it makes it harder for others to help you.

I don't think I need to say more to be honest.

Very well, as you wish.

 

[danceofthegods]

33.1.2.3.4.5.6 to 19 Retreat to Approach
There is a a two-way flow of energy between primary and relating hexagrams.

Everything - all thoughts, feelings, actions, connections, and plans that you have about this situation needs to be amended. Focus on the new rather than the old. You will be rewarded with new opportunities and perspectives.

Thank you My Key. That is an interesting take. I will consider it more, what you say about amending, focusing on the new rather than the old (I have been mired in thoughts of the past with him). Do you think the amending comes with 33 retreating or backing off into the distance to get a wider perspective? Wider, bigger, neutral, less attached, less obsessive, etc perspective? So by 33, and amending with my new perspective and the insight it allows for, I can meet new approaching 19 opportunities?...Oh wait, I just re-read what you wrote. Ok I see. Thank you!

 

[Freedda]

DG, instead of Retreat, I like to think that Hexagram 33 is about getting some distance from a situation, of stepping back so you can perhaps see a bit more and gain a new perspective, or outlook.

With all the moving lines and also the resulting 19 - called Taking Charge - I get a sense of immediacy about this, that you really need to do this, now, and that you really need to be the one whom makes the steps to do it - as opposed say, to the other person forcing the distance upon you.

 

[danceofthegods]

With all the moving lines and also the resulting 19 - called Taking Charge - I get a sense of immediacy about this, that you really need to do this, now, and that you really need to be the one whom makes the steps to do it - as opposed say, to the other person forcing the distance upon you.

SUper cool take and advice, Freedda. YES! shakes your hands, both of them.

 

[danceofthegods]

You wrote a long post (not really long actually. sorry you feel that I wrote a novel without any meat but that is subjective), but didn't include anything at all about your own wishes and feelings on the matter (um yes I did but again, that's your take). That is problematic (It's a problem to you apparently. But mostly presumptuous and irritating. I appreciate you taking the time to respond and send me a nice song but these sentences seem quite patronizing, and even passive aggressive. Or maybe you just had an off day and it's coming through here unintended.)


But given that you aren't expressing any will at all, maybe retreat is best for everyones sanity. UGH what? rude. are you implying I am driving myself insane or am i driving you insane? Who the hell is "everyone" here? If you are annoyed and driven near insane by my text, then move along. don't read it.


But on the other hand, the other readings indicate something is possible there.
Sometimes two different paths are routes to the same destination.
These two sentences were quite helpful and even comforting and I honestly thank you for that. One doesn't have to be nice or sugar coat but one should refrain from unneccessary patronizing or rudeness of word choice.

To be honest, your reply irked me. It is sounding presumptuous esp bc it is not true that I am not expressing "any will at all". Erm, what? But it got me thinking AM I not expressing ENOUGH of my own will in this matter (not to you, Moss Elk, on this thread but in my heart in my life in regards to this man and situation)? And I thought "yeah, maybe I could let myself express more of my own will instead of waiting for his signal." so thanks for that insight and POV.

I hope you are having a good day and if not, I send you some good energy.

 

[moss elk]

I apologize, I didn't mean to irk you.

Good luck.