34.6 to 14. Lost relationship

[Camilo]

Over a month ago I lost a relationship, my question to the Oracle was simple: Am I going to retrieve my ex, that is getting her back. I broke up with her and she looked out for me but I didn't want to contact her, so when I tried to reach her in order to solve our matters she refused to do so. The situation I'm in right now is exactly the impasse shown in the sixth line no progress at all, I can't say anything to get her back, she was even rude to me and the prediction confuses me more since it changes to hexagram 14 "great success". Please be patient with me English is not my native language besides the fact that I'm devastated due to my recent loss of her. I interpret the changing hexagram in success that is getting her back. Any advise from a kind soul in here?

 

[altair139]

34 indicates you have to remain firm. Persevere further. It is beneficial to continue. Also, control yourself, right now your emotion is overwhelming, excessive even.
Line 6 depicts a deadlock. You can't advance nor retreat. Endure further, good fortune might come. Accept an impasse and learn its lesson.
Hex 14 is arguably the most auspicious hexagram in Iching. It says you will possess something of great values. It could be the love that you've longed for. Keep the faith!

 

[Camilo]

Thanks Altair, is quite confusing for me to believe in her coming back to me, when she was so rude but line 6 perfectly describes my situation an impasse. I'll keep the faith thanks a lot. I'm perplexed since my ex told me there was nothing I could do or say to make her come back to me.

 

[Camilo]

New question

Since there is nothing I could say or do in order to fix my relationship, I asked the Oracle if I was going to be able to solve the problems in my lost relationship, thatis with my ex and also if she was coming back to me. The answer I got from the Oracle was 38.1.2 to 35. I interpret this as my present situation the opposition that is hexagram 38 and the changing lines as my long waited reconciliation. Am I right?

 

[altair139]

Hex 38 is estrangement. It's hard to reunite with your gf now. As I said before your state right now is filled with overwhelming emotion. Dont dwell on it, take a break. Cut some slack for you and for her.
Line 1:
Liu: Remorse vanishes. If one loses a horse, one should not look for it; it will return by itself. Even if one sees evil men, no blame.
I think it's very clear, don't chase after your gf now, when the time is right she will turn back to you on her own.
Line 2: One meets his superior in an alley. No blame.
This is some kind of a fated union. A casual meeting is predicted. Very likely is between you two. Good things usually come when you less expect it.

35 is progress. Your relationship or emotional well being will improve after all the events above happen. Continue to keep the faith, things look brighter than a lot of cases i've encountered.

 

[Camilo]

Thanks once again Altair, as you already mentioned I'm overwhelmed and sad right now. I think this is a matter of patience and waiting for things to change.