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I guess I am not the only one wondering about the three people in 41.3. There are enough examples of three people staying good friends or partners for many years. Or doing something really worthwhile, without anyone leaving prematurely.
Does anyone have any actual reading experiences with this...apart from Lisa ?
Trojina, would you want to post your readings that don't fit, and maybe we can learn something? Other angles on this?
(Maybe you don't want to or you would have already.)
I guess I am not the only one wondering about the three people in 41.3. There are enough examples of three people staying good friends or partners for many years. Or doing something really worthwhile, without anyone leaving prematurely.
Today I was talking about it with a friend and suddenly it hit me. In other places in the Yi, three simply means "a few", more than 2, but not especially limited to 3. Maybe here as well.
My own experience with cooperation is, that one or two people can make something happen without any trouble. Not always of course, but there is a good chance, if they have the right connection together. As soon as there is one more, the connection is different. Like voting, with 3 you can outvote someone, not so with 1 or 2. Starting an enterprise with 3 (or more) will always bring an amount of trouble as well. The one who leaves might be a person - or a dream of one of them - or part of the result. Someone or something is leaving.
In the fanyao, 26.3, everyone is busy doing things, working hard. So it makes sense that 41.3 also has something to do with doing things. Not just walking together and losing or finding one person.
In the question of my friend, this way of seeing three made sense of an otherwise obscure answer. It told her that waiting for that person, who never seemed to do what was expected, simply meant that she herself (or she with partner) had to be the source of the power, and others were only helpers - or not. They were not part of the source of power.
I saw many times a 'statement of a fact' in answers. Often it gave me a nice feel, like a good friend who does his/her best to understand, and knows what you mean. And then giving some directions, and you know they have been thought through.-Interesting that I got "41- decrease" about shrinking something Very litteral... But the line puzzles me.
-Maybe too many people got involved and the original plan got "lost", they just did what they thought would be best, without consulting me? Ie, I got left out of the decision loop. That would be a statement of fact, not a prediction.
So my short hand for the 41.3 cast in non-romantic situations so far is: "out of the loop", "may need to let go of a concept to make progress" and. "Working one on one", and it can be with a series of people
the odd will try to get even
or
the unstable will seek stability or equilibrium
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