42.2.5> 41 I asked for advice to get out of this situation

[Fortuny1889]

My already complicated life has become even more dramatic.
I was organizing the separation from my husband, a man who was leading me to failure on several fronts of my life, when his parents suddenly died. Our financial situation is not misleading, and now we find ourselves to heal all the financial mess that my husband's father had.

My question to Yi was just a suggestion, if possible have it, practical. How can I get out of it and free myself?

the answer: 42.2.5> 41

I currently consider delaying my husband's postponement. It's a moral issue for me: I don't leave it alone now, in this big mess. I want to help him sort things out in the most beneficial way for him, and then close this bankruptcy marriage.

Yi's answer seems to give me strength on this project: to grow by leaving qusl that does not correspond to good for me.
But all those turtles? does anyone know the symbolic meaning?

I'm very confused ... sorry.

Thanks to those who want to help me

 

[mandarin_23]

The Yi reading speaks of the virtue of your good heart, with 42.5., and the Blessing and generousity of 42.2. It is good not to let him alone in this - "heal all the mess" - but how to get out of this with this reading? I think you can trust yourself to be led, and that you are growing from this Situation, and this will be the natural flow - to be rich in your spirit and also just wealthy enough will lead you out of any embarrassement.

You probably don't Need to "do" anything but to navigate yourself through. 41, offering, might be what you give into the situation, and 42 is what you gain.

Not sure about the turtles. They symbolize blessings, as far as I know, and then there are hard outside and soft within, like the fire hexagram. There might be some symbol experts among us?

 

[Fortuny1889]

Thanks Mandarin, your words, besides being a comfort to me, make it clear that my attitude is the right one.

Certainly all these turtles blessings seem to tell me that this loss is a blessing in disguise. What do you think about it?

 

[Trojina]

My already complicated life has become even more dramatic.
I was organizing the separation from my husband, a man who was leading me to failure on several fronts of my life, when his parents suddenly died. Our financial situation is not misleading, and now we find ourselves to heal all the financial mess that my husband's father had.

My question to Yi was just a suggestion, if possible have it, practical. How can I get out of it and free myself?

the answer: 42.2.5> 41

I currently consider delaying my husband's postponement. It's a moral issue for me: I don't leave it alone now, in this big mess. I want to help him sort things out in the most beneficial way for him, and then close this bankruptcy marriage.

Yi's answer seems to give me strength on this project: to grow by leaving qusl that does not correspond to good for me.
But all those turtles? does anyone know the symbolic meaning?

I'm very confused ... sorry.

Thanks to those who want to help me

I think Yi is giving you strength especially to be kind, in line 5 you aren't doubted even by Yi it seems, your kindness is unquestionable and it is a virtue, it is important and you already know what you need to do. In line 2 you are blessed with blessings you cannot refuse, this is a real switchabout cast.

I wonder if there is far more to this situation than you might imagine. I have no idea what but 42/41 are a pair, Increase and Decrease, Filling and Emptying. Strangely it seems there's much blessing around you and in part this comes from the truth of your nature, of holding your principles of kindness. You don' t need to think about this Yi is answering you directly. You say

I currently consider delaying my husband's postponement. It's a moral issue for me: I don't leave it alone now, in this big mess. I want to help him sort things out in the most beneficial way for him, and then close this bankruptcy marriage.

and Yi answers, Hilary's translation from wiki

'Sincere and confident, with a benevolent heart,
No question: good fortune from the source.
Sincerity, confidence and benevolence are my own de.'

You don't need to worry or doubt. By doing what you see as the right thing you gain blessings of all kinds. It is possible that this cycle of loss turns about completely. I don't know how.

A lovely answer. Tortoise shells were used to divine with. If 10 pairs of tortoise shells say you will be blessed that means it's an absolute certainty you will receive blessings.

I don't know what advice to give from this because you have an answer saying you can't be wrong to follow your own kindness and you will be blessed and are blessed. This also looks like a cycle of loss and gain turning quite quickly.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello Fortuny!

I'd say 42.2.5> 41 means: It's a great time to undertake what is beneficial for you; to be "wholeheartedly" giving to yourself; and to sacrifice what's needed in order to make a better life.
Be generous with yourself.
Good luck!