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Hi,
I just want to know if I'm correct to think this is a good reading?
I asked: "Will he come back to me or is it really over?"
I got: 45.4 > 8
Thank you,
DDream
You mention, "Something is at work for your betterment. A higher force is at work, and you do not need to force anything (you seem to be doing just that which is very good)." What exactly do you think is at work? Does it mean that no matter what happens, it will be for the best in the end?
About these questions, I think they are the same question and the 39 unchanging might be Yi's way of saying a couple of things. One that you have already asked this and two that Yi knows that you are having difficulties. I am sure there could be more to this 39 unchanging, but I am seeing it as your questioning is having difficulties. I will try and post on 33.5 > 56 in a bit.What can I do to feel better about myself/with myself?
33.5 > 56
I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. What can I do to feel better?
39 > 39
Self-preservatation. Here to succeed, the advice is to retreat. Retreat without looking for results to follow. To do this because you are in need of preservation. I almost see this as "let go" of the past. Walk away from it. Don't hold negativity in your heart.Retreat, Withdrawal. A suckling pig and ‘go’ – see LiSe[1]. Maybe running away to avoid being eaten, maybe running after what you need to sustain you. Either way the idea is self-preservation: defending against the risk of losing yourself.
'Praised retreat.
Constancy, good fortune.’
33 zhi Hexagram 56, the Sojourner. The sojourner finds the right course to take, and a friendly disengagement from dispute becomes available now. This is the right moment to make a goodnatured retreat from any conflict. You have your own own unique calling. Preserving integrity with 33, staying loyal to the path with 56, ‘just passing through’ – an unusually good match.
Does this mean there is still hope that our relationship can work out? Does this mean that our relationship can still go somewhere, but it will need patience and time because it will develop very slowly?
yes
line 3: at present you have to calm down...catch your heart which is jumping around
line 5: there are some difficulties between you - thats why its not the time for a breakthrough but they will dissapear
line 6: the job is done...happiness comes
hexagram 2: be receptive and act due to the necessaties of the situation between you, not the necessaties of your heart beat rate
very clear answer (but i am a bloody scrub on i ching interpreation, so the members with more experience are welcome to wash my head :bows
Ok, sorry, but I had to ask a few other questions and it's weird because I received hexagram 17 twice... I'm not sure of the interpretation though...
What will happen between x and I during the upcoming week?
17.1 > 45
There are exceptional conditions in which the relation between leader and followers changes. It is implicit in the idea of following and adaptation that if one wants to lead others, one must remain accessible and responsive to the views of those under him. At the same time, however, he must have firm principles, so that he does not vacillate where there is only a question of current opinion.
How will x act with me during the upcoming week?
17.2.6 > 10
In friendships and close relationships an individual must make a careful choice. He surrounds himself either with good or with bad company; he cannot have both at once. If he throws himself away on unworthy friends he loses connection with people of intellectual power who could further him in the good.
This refers to a man, an exalted sage, who has already put the turmoil of the world behind him. But a follower appears who understands him and is not to be put off. So the sage comes back into the world and aids the other in his work. Thus there develops an eternal tie between the two.
Thanks for your interpretation, arabella.
You are right that I'm probably wasting my time. I just don't know what to think anymore... I'm going crazy. Sometimes, I still have hope. I keep thinking I'll hear back from him for sure since he has to at least tell me his decision. Other times, I feel this situation is so ridiculous. But whatever I'm thinking, I'm still hurt because I didn't see this coming AT ALL. He seemed happy about it when I said it accidently. That's where I'm confused. He said he can't lie, but this whole relationship was a lie. He never told me how pressured he felt with me and I could never have guessed because he kept telling me he was feeling the same as I did. Even last Sunday when we said goodbye to each other, he said: "Come on next Friday, hurry up so we can see each other again!" He even gave me his keys in case I got to his place earlier and he wasn't there. I just... I don't understand. It really did seem like he was happy with the relationship and where it was going. We were always holding hands in public. He never tried to hide me. How could I have known he was feeling that way? There were seriously no signs prior to that and that's why I'm so devastated. I just don't understand what happened. And it's hard to let go because I really thought there was something and it was going somewhere. It's hard to leave the good memories behind. I just wish I could go back in time...
I keep telling myself I need to move on, but it's very hard. I want to contact him so badly right now. I know it's better not to, even though he told me we could talk in the meantime. It's just so hard not to. I don't know what he's doing or who he's with. It hurts me so much. I don't even know if or when I'll hear back from him.
I have a question for you, arabella. How would you interpret the answer I got earlier (53.3.5.6 > 2) when I asked what would be the outcome between x and I? I thought it was a somewhat good answer.
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