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I wonder if 53.3 - 57 is descriptive of your experience with the fellow whom you find intriguing? He's squelched the idea of romance (53.3) but you still would like to know him better (57). So perhaps this answer is encouraging you to explore this friendship more deeply, recognize the love that is here even if it's not your final answer and who knows? Maybe he has a friend...
I agree that Yi is calling "fruitless" your attempts, although 53 is just at the beginning!
[Oh, I am so frightened at the idea of meeting guys through apps! I have a close friend, she actually married the Tinder guy! And he is a very nice guy btw.]
Can I give you a tip? That's my sister's tip: write down what you want for you re. Relationship, then ask the Universe for someone who fulfills the requirements you wrote down. But try to be very especific as to the subtile, immaterial stuff (she forgot one little thing, and the guy was lacking that! ).
So I guess you will need to feel relaxed, not anxious or demanding (these stuff disturb the Force heh), and see how the friendship develops!Crazy thing is that I have already made this list you are referring to, some months previous meeting this particular guy - who wants to stay friends and giving me mixed signals but sweets ones. And guess what, he is pretty much what I asked for!
Thank you for your replyHello,
53.3 – 20: I also think that line 3 corresponds to your relationship with your young friend. In my opinion, this sounds like advice not to delude yourself because there is a trap here: read the translations carefully. Listen to what this man tells you when he offers you only his friendship. That is the reality.
On the other hand, you have an indication in 20.3 the fan yao to know where to find love but it is not a magic answer either... although! Hexagram 20 is not an easy hexagram to pierce I find, but according to my lens, line 3 "Contemplate of my life, move forward-backward" speaks of our power of observation and alignment with what is happening, with the right people on our way or not. Know if the flow is right for you or not. Know what makes you feel good or not...
So I guess you will need to feel relaxed, not anxious or demanding (these stuff disturb the Force heh), and see how the friendship develops!
So go girl!
53.3 changes to 20. Yes. Duh. Thank you.
Anyway, just wanted to chime in on this advice to write down exactly what you are looking for in a partner and add that I had a girlfriend who tried that. She made a very specific list - like the color of car even! - and a couple of weeks later her neighbor's dog got out and she chased it down through the street until it ran into someone's backyard and there she met him! He fit every single item on her list! They had a brief fling before deciding they were better off being friends - and they have continued to be friends until this day 10+ years later. Curious how these various stories of writing down what people want in a relationship have manifested great affairs and friends but not lasting love. Maybe love requires something magical...
53.3
You should wait for the right moment and not actively seek out a partner.
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