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62.3 does x think about me romantically?

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62.3 doesn't seem good. Does X think about me romantically? Because I do all day. What steps should I take now?
 

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Anyone? I have been thinking that I think too much about this, I fantasize about it too much. On the other hand, I tell myself, what's wrong with some fantasy? It feels nice and doesn't interfere with my life.

I just wonder if x sees me and feels the butterflies too. We are always smiling to each other and I feel a little nervous. We do a quick hi, bye, how are you, what's new ect. and go on with our lives.

X doesn't ask me questions that make me believe he thinks about me in that way. The only hint I get is the staring, and the smiling, happiness that he expresses when we see each other.

But I have been fantasizing a lot, AND, bumping into x a lot. I'm not sure if I keep dreaming about x because I keep running into x or if I keep running into x because I keep thinking about x.

Even if x did, I am in a position for friendship, not romance. But gosh it feels good to dream.

Should I stop giving him so much of my thoughts? Is it okay to daydream that I am madly in love and madly loved?

What is this hex telling me? It sounds bad :(
 

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hi saturn.
maybe the iching is suggesting you to explore the situation, but very carefully.
The first hex suggesting that you should have a light approach, not expecting to much, and therefore you could find yourself in a position where you can have a more clear view of his involvment (or maybe even reconsider yours)..who knows?
but pls consider i m just a beginner. do not pay much attention to my reading. in this forum there are people with much more experience than me.
just hope it can help
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Thank you. Just curious, what would you call a light approach? Seeing as this person and I have nothing linking us, only that we work for the same organization in departments far far apart, and we keep bumping into each other. Three times in the last month, and these have been meaningful because of the cheesy, awkwardness that occurs. There are about 10,000 people walking around these paths everyday.

How do I go about approaching it lightly? Next time we bump in, how do I react, what do I say? I get so nervous.
 

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saturn for sure i cannot suggest u what to say, or how to behave. but my suggestion was to have the kind of approach that you would have when you want to know better a person, being open to any possibility. lets say that u meet a guy in a pub, and you feel interested by him, but you still dont know if you want to become friend (only friend) or maybe you could be more involved later...in this case the way you would behave is..trying to know him better first, without any determination that he MUST be your bf or that he MUST be the love of your life. if my interpretation of the iching makes sense, then once you know better this guy, you will find out by urself later which one of the cases.
 

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62.3 doesn't seem good. Does X think about me romantically? Because I do all day. What steps should I take now?

What do you see the words of 62.3 saying ? They are pretty to the point aren't they..if you don't watch your back someone bops you from behind. Check out the penguin in the memorising thread for 62

so this line warns you about trusting, warns you to be wary of harm..this could be any kind of hurt or betrayal..so it would seem to be saying far from expecting romance you need to be on your guard about harm from him ? what kind of harm I don't know, do you think he may be playing games with you or something. I don't know but this line is a warning...but I'm stating the obvious...I don't know why, you read the line, how would you interpret it ?



I can't actually think of a less romantic line...unless you like being hit from behind...which some people do of course ;)

...seriously though you need to watch your back with 62.3...er to state the obvious again (I'm good at that )


If you wish to proceed i think Robibiros advise was good.....be careful
 
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Wow... I read the line and immedietly thought: no good... wow
but I can't see this person harming me. Maybe getting myself into the situation would harm me, not the individual. If anyone has harmed me the most in the past it has been my self, my impulsive self.

any other thoughts?
 

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yes it isn't to say this person would actually harm you but it would seem there is something harmful in the sitution/the way you are currently engaging with the it., something perhaps you are unaware of which i presume is why Robi suggested you carefully explore the situation. perhaps there is something about him you don't know.



Its not really a line open to huge variety of interpretations, i don't think, its a fairly stark warning for you to keep your wits about you and pay attention to the details of the situation. So it would seem to me to be definately suggesting you pull out of the fantasising mind state...as far as you are able as backfire looks possible even if only from your own mind
 

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