64.3 Am I ready?

[lalafree]

Dear All,

I have been away from this forum for a while!
I have "closed" a big part of my life where everything was wrong. Relationships, my professional life, my social life, my love life etcc....

Things are getting better, I have a new job which a I love, I have closed all that kind of relationship that where giving me frustration and where leading me nowhere.
I'm basically reborn and i feel very proud and happy about that!!!
Ups and downs are always there, but it is ok and actually what makes me feel in the right path!!!

After a bad relationship, finally over, which has devastating me!!! I feel I want to open my heart again to the right person,
and my question is:
I'm now ready for a new relationship?
I mean for the good one, the right one, the One!!

answer is 64.3

who has experience with this line??

I'm confused if the line is about a period of transition, which is normal, or is a warning that I'm doing something wrong!

any suggestion?

Love!

 

[goddessliss]

Hey, It's saying you still have some final steps to take to get your heart opening for the right one. Do some work on your Heart Chakra.....foods, meditation, talisman and an altar about the Heart Chakra.

 

[remod]

It seems to me that the response suggests that the big change in your life might be not fully completed.

I don't see 64.3 warning about you doing something "wrong". It looks to me as a suggestion about not rushing things; about not adding big changes to big changes just for the sake of it.

If it was directed to me, I would read it as:

<<<
Finish to get your things in order, you're doing weel. Be careful not to chase an ideal "One" now just because you like the idea of finding one.
>>>

I see as particuarly resonating the fact that the position 64.3 is not approriate and the image in hex 50 specically says:
" Thus the superior man consolidates his fate By making his position correct."

to remind that one as to act to set his own destiny straight.

 

[lalafree]

Thank you remod and goddessliss,
both of your thoughts resonate with me, and I think I still have some work to be done before been ready!

I asked: what I have left to do in order to be ready for that?
answer is 11.1.2 to 15

Yes I feel in harmony, and 11.2 reflects my social life at the moment. I had to let go big part of my "friendships" lately because I realized they weren't real friendships, but just some company that disappears when i mostly needed help. It wasn't easy for me to accept, but I'm now ok with that. I'm alone, but not lonely!
What about 11.1? for one moment I had the feeling that it is related to my ex.... something like:
ehy you think you get rid of that story, but underground it is still entangled with you and you are not very free...
what do you think?..

 

[rosada]

I don't think there is some specific chore that needs to be completed before you are ready for a new relationship. More like a state of mind you should experience first. Enjoy the experience of just you being you. Be at peace (11) and go about your life is a simple unassuming sort of way (15).

As I write this one thing that does come to mind is perhaps you should look at your life and see if you have any clutter/issues that would crowd out a relationship. 15. Modesty to me means someone who is capable of filling any role required of them - like the enlightened sage who will appear as an advisor to the king or a garage mechanic if that's what's needed. So in order to be ready perhaps you need to do what ever is necessary to make yourself able to fit into a variety of situations. So again - simplify your life.

 

[Tim K]

11.1.2 → 15
Learn to accept that shi* happens [.1], stay centered and don't let it affect you too much [.2], there are no ideal things in life, always some dirt is tucked in between
That attitude is called modesty - 15.