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Well it's like you are contemplating/he is contemplating you...looking, considering. The fact it changes to 2 makes me think this could easily dissolve to not being there at all.First of all I asked please show me an image of our status with him and I got 20. 5.6. to 2.
I think that's a pretty good interpretation yes. I think hexagram 2 could go either way here. Either it's a place to grow from or it's just an empty space. 2 as relating can often show things that go back to earth so to speak as if they never were. This answer is also asking you to consider everything that has happened, look at it again not only in the light of your own life(line 5) but also in comparison to other people's situations(line 6). Line 6 often shows that sometimes it's really useful to consider what other people do or would do in your situation. Or if a friend had this problem what would you say to her?My understanding of these hexagrams is currently no one is going to take a step for further communication. Everyone believes that they are right or maybe everybody wants to see what will happen from a distance but if we do not further argue this may end up with good fortune.
This is the line of the pioneer, someone who is making it up as they go along since they have no guide to follow. I imagine he's quite open but maybe he's never been in this situation before. You sound quite direct which is good, he can hardly say he is confused.My second question was "What does he expect from me?" and I got 27.6 changing to 24.
I think that looks quite a good cast, there's a lot of energy flowing through. 1's 17 The Creative's Following. 17 has much to do with following the flow of events. I wonder if in being so clear about what you did and didn't want he felt that too much.My final question -or maybe statement - was "please give me an insight what future holds for us in terms of a relationship". I got 1. 2.3.6 changing to 17. For Hex 1.
It does look like there is a successful flow, some anxiety in line 3, a communication in line, an opportunity but beware of the overstepping in line 6. I'm all for clear communication about what you want but it seems as if this has freaked him out and I don't really know why. It could be he wanted things to develop more at his pace.My understanding of these hexagrams is currently he is like a dragon - maybe still angry but if i take steps to create something new cautiously, it may help and then we may end up with a succesful flow in the relation.
When I take this advice, I keep feeling shame because basically he thinks that I dumped him in my house, in his first night. I know he likes things in his pace but I wanted him to understand my situation as well.This answer is also asking you to consider everything that has happened, look at it again not only in the light of your own life(line 5) but also in comparison to other people's situations(line 6).
He mentioned that he did not have long term relationships. The longest was like a year or something and he is 41 - Maybe this is a red flag, you know, being over 40 and could not maintain a relationship more than a year.him but it may not be an approach he is used to
This is exactly what puts me on hold when I want to move towards him. I gave him the opportunity and he never used it. This makes me think, maybe I was right, he had no feelings for me after allI'm not sure what you can do now but I would think you have reached out enough, let him know you weren't dumping him. My guess is he feels clamped down on and so has retreated but you did already say before that night you were together that you wanted commitment, you made it clear so he shouldn't have stayed if he wasn't going to honour that really.
reason behind this must be the fact that he had other ladies he wanted to continue to see.as if this has freaked him out and I don't really know why
Thank you for the nice wishes. I am not broken. It's just frustrating. I really do not understand why people choose to act like this. I told him openly since the beginning that if he wants to see other people, I do not want to stay. He came back everytime showing deeper connection. But now I am receiving messages from a long term girlfriend of him and I can only feel sorry for her as well. Anyway I continue my I-Ching experience with daily advices and career / life goals for a while I guessYes, sorry he treated you so badly. And he did treat you badly, he was wrong to behave this way when he knew quite well you wanted more. He was selfish and just did what he wanted to do and one day he will be sorry about that I'm sure. You made it clear from the start you didn't just want a casual relationship so he should have been enough of a gentleman to withdraw and take his lust elsewhere.
I hope you meet someone better who will treat you well
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).