About relationship, got 52, please help

[altair139]

My question is "Will my girlfriend and I be back together?"
We argued and broke up because she wanted a break as we had trust issues. I was being too insecure and she felt overwhelmed by my presence.
I got 52, no changing line or transformed hexagram. I guess it's telling me to wait?

 

[Riddle]

Oh wow I got this too unchanging as well for exactly the same reason a little while back - I took it to mean I needed to take a step back, look after my own sanity and let go of over thinking. It's even quite explicit in that it tells one to meditate which I started doing - very helpful!

I would take some time out, let her have her space, be still but (like the hexagram suggests) wait for the time to act. You acting less overwhelming will show her that you can be trusted and it might be good for you to have some 'me' time.

 

[ginnie]

I got 52, no changing line or transformed hexagram. I guess it's telling me to wait?

No, not exactly. It's telling you to be still and let your thoughts quiet down. Waiting is not the same. Waiting can be quite tense, you know.

 

[altair139]

i dont know im scared of losing her, even though as much as i hate waiting to let me calm down, i just need to know that i can get back to her or not. But it seems the hexagram didn't predict anything about that? :/

 

[goddessliss]

No it doesn't predict anything like that - I'm going through a similar thing although it's a friendship and I asked What best can I do about this friendship and got 52 unchanging.

I've read it as - sit quietly with self and observe the flow of my emotions and just let them flow through my body until I can separate them from my thought process and then hand things over to the 'Universe' for resolution.

At the moment I know how I 'feel' about the friendship but I also know in my heart it's best not to do anything outwardly right now.

Being scared of losing someone is a real red flag to calm down and get some quiet within. It never does any good to do things or make decisions based on your emotional attachment. - Liss

 

[altair139]

Ya thank you.
I'm just scared because i dont know how long I will have to wait, and when I've cleared my mind will I be able to move on or will she come back to me, i dont know...

 

[goddessliss]

That's why it's a good idea to clear your mind....

 

[altair139]

Just now i asked "Will my ex come back to me and start our relationship over again?"
I got hexagram 45 - gathering, no changing lines and transformed hexagram
Should i keep my hope up? Or is this actually a sign that I will meet another person?

 

[altair139]

Then I asked "Will i love another person soon?"
I got 54 - careful affection, 4 changing lines (bottom 4), transformed to hexagram 15 - modesty
I guess it's pretty clear but i cant read anything into context now, pls help

 

[Olga Super Star]

Just now i asked "Will my ex come back to me and start our relationship over again?"

Hi altair 139 (sounds like the name of an airplane )
usually people are encouraged to ask questions about themselves and not about others'intentions as Yi answers to you since you're the one asking.

Will xy come back and do this and that? is not a good question
You could ask in what situation you are with her or
what is the potential of this relationship or
What do you suggest me to do?

You're saying you're afraid of losing her and then you ask if you will fall in love with someone else

 

[altair139]

Because if i'm losing her, I just want to move on as quick as possible, i need somebody to patch me up, but i guess the hexagram warned me about whom i'm trying to get in the future...

 

[altair139]

Ok i followed your instruction, olga, and asked "What should I do about my ex"
I got 39 - obstacle, changing line 6,4,2.. transformed hex 44 - compulsion
I guess i really should move on? since if Im just keeping my hope up things are not gonna be smooth according to the changing lines.

 

[Riddle]

This is a good post to read when you're down about relationships:

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...42-Blog-post-Advice-for-relationship-readings

 

[altair139]

i think it's ok it's time to move on. I know she's moving on with another person already, trying to forget me. I will be broken for awhile but i guess I have to move on.

 

[Olga Super Star]

39 is the way is blocked, blocked usually by the other person.

 

[altair139]

Ya i am blocked by her, i cant find a way to communicate, through social media or phone
what about the transformed hexagram, 44?

 

[altair139]

But then I wanted to try my luck for the last time by asking "Should I go back to my ex"
I got 8 - bonding, changing line 6,4, transformed to 12- stagnation
confused again -_-

 

[Riddle]

I think you should give the iching a rest for a few days and work on yourself - maybe take some time out and see how you feel. Then, when you're calm, go back to the iching with a well thought out question.

I find sometimes if i'm in a muddled place the iching gives me a muddled reading.