Advice on how I can help mum? 14.3.5>10

[BonBon]

Mum is exhibiting potential signs of a cognitive disability. This is a very recent occurrence that we immediate family members have independently observed. We suspect she has herself noticed this as there is a bit of excuse making in certain instances. We have not yet, as a whole, had a conversation with her. That will be happening soon.

I asked Yi for advice on what I could do to help her. The result was 14.3.5>10

Any interp you might have is very welcome.

 

[Hans_K]

Hi BonBon,
H14 is the hexagram of dignity and sovereignty, H10 of diplomacy and tactfulness.

Trigram Heaven turns into Lake because of the moving line at the 3rd position: don't focus too much on the current situation and make decisions mainly based on feeling/intuition and not the mind. Trigram Lake is the joyful, openness and human interaction. So keep things open and light-hearted in contact.
Heaven out of balance can also indicate a lack of overview. This could mean that something else is going on than you think. The open and light-hearted attitude of Lake can then be seen as being open to other possibilities.
Fire turns into Heaven because of the moving line in the 5th position: don't be too pushy and attached to your own truth, just make your intentions and ideas clear.
The related hexagram H10 is Heaven over Lake. Interaction between people (Lake) can only have positive results when certain social rules are observed (Heaven). "Stepping on the tiger's tail" (Judgement text H10) is a Chinese saying that is about taking a big risk. You have to know very well what you are doing, to avoid things going wrong
In this case all the more so, because you have a lot of influence (H14 Great Possession).

I would interpret the answer to your question as: you are most helpful when you respect your mother's sovereignty and dignity and approach the situation with extreme caution and tact.

This would be my interpretation. I hope you can do something with it. As always, take what resonates and leave the rest .