Another 8 unchanging/ relationship question!

[rabbit]

For the first time in my (relatively long!) life, nearly two years ago I met someone that I felt instantly connected to (the nearest I've come to 'love at first sight'). After some several months had passed without meeting again, I - against character - invited them out. Over the following couple of weeks my openness to this (potential) relationship seemed somewhat reciprocated. I say somewhat because although there was a keenness to meet, a physical attraction and a depth and ease to our conversation there was also a large degree of guarded-ness from his side. He made it clear that he had had a very damaging previous marriage and was struggling with the stress of work and being the sole carer to his children. I didn't want to add to his stress and - after he'd made a couple of pretty lame excuses about why he couldn't take up my invitations to meet - I backed off hoping that he might contact me....but he hasn't and I've been obsessively thinking about him and doing far too many iching readings since. The readings I've had seem to me to be positive (mainly guiding to wait) but this could be just wishful thinking on my part! So please can I share my latest reading to see if others might help throw a more objective light on the situation! Thank you in advance! My latest question was "What can I do to get over this obsession?" and I received 8 unchanging. And then I asked "what can I do in this situation?" and got 91.2.6 moving to 27 - any interpretations on the readings would be really helpful, thanks!

 

[answeredquestions]

For the first time in my (relatively long!) life, nearly two years ago I met someone that I felt instantly connected to (the nearest I've come to 'love at first sight'). After some several months had passed without meeting again, I - against character - invited them out. Over the following couple of weeks my openness to this (potential) relationship seemed somewhat reciprocated. I say somewhat because although there was a keenness to meet, a physical attraction and a depth and ease to our conversation there was also a large degree of guarded-ness from his side. He made it clear that he had had a very damaging previous marriage and was struggling with the stress of work and being the sole carer to his children. I didn't want to add to his stress and - after he'd made a couple of pretty lame excuses about why he couldn't take up my invitations to meet - I backed off hoping that he might contact me....but he hasn't and I've been obsessively thinking about him and doing far too many iching readings since. The readings I've had seem to me to be positive (mainly guiding to wait) but this could be just wishful thinking on my part! So please can I share my latest reading to see if others might help throw a more objective light on the situation! Thank you in advance! My latest question was "What can I do to get over this obsession?" and I received 8 unchanging. And then I asked "what can I do in this situation?" and got 91.2.6 moving to 27 - any interpretations on the readings would be really helpful, thanks!

Hi Rabbit..

8 Unchanging for "what can I do to get over this obsession?" .... Maybe it is saying something like hang out with a group of like-minded people and enjoy yourself to get your mind off of this man while you are waiting? Or perhaps strengthen your connections everywhere around you and then naturally there will be a shift of energy from obsessing over him to putting your thoughts and energy into everything else. Like many rivers joining together at one place, strengthen the flows of them all. Friends, family, work associates, healers, anyone that is positive in your life, nourish those people's connections?? Let me know what you think about that.

91.2.6>27 - not sure what you mean here. I checked 61 changing to 27 and it would require lines 2 and 5 to change. I also checked 9 changing to 27 and it requires lines 2, 3, and 5 to change. Hrrmm.. maybe you mean 7.1.2.6>27....

 

[rabbit]

Thank you answeredquestions - your interpretation does make sense - although I'm not sure how the unchanging nature of the 8 fits in with that...The second reading was meant to be 19.2.6....sorry! and thank you again.

 

[answeredquestions]

19.2.6>27 - "what can I do in this situation?"

19 might be saying to be the bigger person. To be the adult and realize what is right and what is wrong; what is healthy and what is damaging.

.2 would be saying whatever you realize, let it go thru you completely. Let it soak in and flow out. Let the things you realize move you to the directions to need to go.

.6 seems to imply that as you are realizing these beautiful and positive signs, that you can only expect yourself to understand. Maybe it is saying to not expect him to understand as well??? Maybe someone else can chime in on this line. I don't think I understand it well enough...

27 maybe it is saying watch what you eat and what you say. Eating something unhealthy could mean altering your perception of understanding the things you need to realize and be responsible about(19). And saying something without truely thinking about it first could result in confusing the matter more.

:bows:

 

[Lavalamp]

"what can I do in this situation?"
19.2.6

I think the Yi is saying it's a package deal, you have to include his kids in any approach to this man. You got some free tickets from somewhere, would his kids like to go to the Circus?

>27 -
The kind of dad he is is going to tell you a lot about the man, and how you take care of others about you.

 

[rabbit]

Thanks again answeredquestions for your useful and insightful readings...I'll keep mulling over them! Thanks Lavalamp, too - we're both single parents and a few of our 'dates' were with our children and we all seemed to have a lovely time together - so the package deal is definitely not a problem for me and he's a wonderful dad to his kids. Thinking about the 8 unchanging - I've felt a degree of lessening of my obsession since posting on this site and wonder if this could be what's meant by the 8!