apologize / close the matter 47.2.6 to 12.

[post-snow]

hello. i would be very happy if someone could help me some guidance on this:

i grew close to a person with whom i have some creative projects going on, and i feel emotionally safe with them. however this has lead me to probably share a bit too much of my negative emotions related to the projects we do (some things remind me of previous things that had gone bad. i have no reason to think this person would behave the same as the others with whom our projects became dull, but yesterday i still shared a quite big lump of my confusion and fear regarding their idea of doing more things together.

reading my message i think it was 1) confusing 2) overly dramatic. their reaction was as good as a human can hope for (ie we do not have to do this if you dont want to now, we might try this later or never, etc), i sent back a short message to explaind why i was so emotional. but i still have a headache over this. i value them a lot, i like them as a human being, even romantically (yes i know, might nit be a good idea haha).

thing is, i do feel this drama might be too much for them and we some time ago had something a bit similar when i reacted strongly and they - although the first reaction was super sensitive - became a bit distant for a few days which is understandable. i dont want to build walls and scare the person.

i dont know whether to apologize and explain further, or do not come back to this.
i asked yi "apologize / close the matter" and got 47.2.6 to 12.

the moving lines
- "Setting out to bring order: pitfall, no mistake.' - is this saying i set out to bring order /explain myself) and it was a bad idea but not a mistake, or is it warning me not to set out now?
- "Acting – regret. ” With regret, setting forth, good fortune.'" - does it mean i acted and regret it, and now i set out and it is fine, or does it mean i would regret going furhter?

maybe this is all good and sharong so much of my emotional things will help the relationship?

Line 2​

'Confined while drinking and feasting,
Scarlet sashes come from all directions.
Fruitful to use thank-offerings and oblations.
Setting out to bring order: pitfall, no mistake.'

Line 6​

'Confined by trailing creepers, by unease and discomfort,
Says, “Acting – regret. ” With regret, setting forth, good fortune.'

also the first hex says "Do not place too much value on words: they will not provide you with a way out – neither conversation, nor argument, nor your own reasoning and theorizing. "

so i think i would do best to just stay put? and do nothing more? could someone help?

 

[galatea11]

Hello,

I hope it's ok if I bump this thread since I received the identical reading last week and have been pondering it ever since. At first glance 47 combined with 12 seem like a fairly negative response (my query also pertained to the taking of a certain action regarding a friend) but the lines themselves give me a different impression..

 

[post-snow]

Hello,

I hope it's ok if I bump this thread since I received the identical reading last week and have been pondering it ever since. At first glance 47 combined with 12 seem like a fairly negative response (my query also pertained to the taking of a certain action regarding a friend) but the lines themselves give me a different impression..

if it is any help, the matter seemed to somehow evaporate and it was not as big a problem as i had thought - i cannot rule out that they were affected and maybe hurt though, we havent met in person yet after this.

 

[galatea11]

Hi Post-snow, thanks for the update. That is really interesting since the image of 47 seems to show water drained out of a lake - not exactly water evaporating, but close. I've chosen to take the action which resulted in Yi's 47>12 response but there's no definitive effect from having taken the action, at least as of yet.

 

[post-snow]

Hi Post-snow, thanks for the update. That is really interesting since the image of 47 seems to show water drained out of a lake - not exactly water evaporating, but close. I've chosen to take the action which resulted in Yi's 47>12 response but there's no definitive effect from having taken the action, at least as of yet.

thank you! let me know if you feel like it

 

[galatea11]

Hi Post-snow, I will definitely let you know how it goes, but the plan I undertook may not come to fruition for a number of months. Generally I update all my threads here and will make it a point to revisit this one too.

 

[galatea11]

Hi Post-snow,

The situation with my 47>12 reading has had a decisive outcome. A friend had been working on some property for me but my funds were limited and I was trying to think of creative ways to offer him more compensation. 47>12 came in response to one of the ideas I was considering. Maybe 4-6 weeks after the reading I discovered that my "friend" had started getting intoxicated again (a problem from the past), lying about important matters, and stealing equipment from me. This is how I now interpret the reading:

Friend was "oppressed while at food and drink" because he felt that the man with scarlet knee bands (me) wasn't paying him enough (47.2). Even though friend could have left the job at any time (47.6) he instead permitted himself to be honored with revenue that he didn't deserve (12.)

I hope that your situation had a more favorable ending.

 

[post-snow]

Hi Post-snow,

The situation with my 47>12 reading has had a decisive outcome. A friend had been working on some property for me but my funds were limited and I was trying to think of creative ways to offer him more compensation. 47>12 came in response to one of the ideas I was considering. Maybe 4-6 weeks after the reading I discovered that my "friend" had started getting intoxicated again (a problem from the past), lying about important matters, and stealing equipment from me. This is how I now interpret the reading:

Friend was "oppressed while at food and drink" because he felt that the man with scarlet knee bands (me) wasn't paying him enough (47.2). Even though friend could have left the job at any time (47.6) he instead permitted himself to be honored with revenue that he didn't deserve (12.)

I hope that your situation had a more favorable ending.

thank you very much, i really appreciate you came back to update!

your situation sounds super difficult, i am sorry you are experiencing this.

mine is very different although not too happy also,
we talked about the project and agreed we will try to do it as often as they wanted (at that moment it seemed best), there were no more bad feelings. however now i think it might have been wiser to actually keep my original idea of doing it very rarely only (the reason is in part exactly what i was thinking first place, my reasons for working tigether less often were 1) fear of the projects becoming dull (this is not happening now) 2) fear they would find a new partner and i would suffer knowing that all my efforts were in vain my heart broken and them being in love with someone new (which seems exactly the situation now. maybe i should have been more strict first place) - i now VERY much ponder the quesion whethet top tell them or not

(edited to ask: i asked the i cihn "tell them or not" and got 45 unchanging - it speaks of "getting yourself together" and says that gatherng brings success, so i would interpret it as an advice to collaborate further and to get myself together plus "This is a time to strengthen shared roots" and indeedi feel that it might be a bad idea to dramatically tell them i am suffering and make them hide the fact they now have a partner - it would make too big a strain on the relationship between us possibly, and ending the shared projects sounds much worse than continuing and eventually getting myself together )

however there is nobody doing ba dthings or stealing and such, so i can only say good luck to you in the future, it is not nice for you

 

[galatea11]

Hi Post-snow,

There is actually a great deal of relief in the situation for me because it's decisively over and I don't need to second-guess myself anymore. Also, the project is moving forward with other people who are genuinely happy to be part of it. I regard 45.6 as a transitional line in the original reading (47.2>45.6>12)

45.6 - Wilhelm/Baynes: Lamenting and sighing, floods of tears. No blame.

At this point Wilhelm's interpretation sums up the circumstances very well for me: I did my best with X, it didn't work out, I shed some tears (for real), and now I can move on.

Wishing you the best outcome for your situation.

 

[post-snow]

Hi Post-snow,

There is actually a great deal of relief in the situation for me because it's decisively over and I don't need to second-guess myself anymore. Also, the project is moving forward with other people who are genuinely happy to be part of it. I regard 45.6 as a transitional line in the original reading (47.2>45.6>12)

45.6 - Wilhelm/Baynes: Lamenting and sighing, floods of tears. No blame.

At this point Wilhelm's interpretation sums up the circumstances very well for me: I did my best with X, it didn't work out, I shed some tears (for real), and now I can move on.

Wishing you the best outcome for your situation.

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