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ugh, to make matters worse, I asked the I Ching about the contradiction, and got the dreaded 32.4 ("no game in the field"). ugh, am distancing myself in any case.8. Associate
Line 1:
Having a trusting association with someone.
Without fault.
Have confidence,
a full well-bucket will eventually arrive.
There will be other good fortune.
Associating with someone who one can trust to be willing to really help. It is not a mistake. This person will not leave until things are finished. One can expect other good things from this relationship as well.
(Here a well is being dug, and the comrade is helping until it is possible to use it for getting water.)
Line 6:
Associating with someone without head.
Misfortune.
Associating with someone out of confusion. This doesn't go well.
Hexagram is changing to:
42. Benefiting
Benefiting.
It is beneficial to have a goal to move to.
It is beneficial to cross the big river.
Benefiting from the situation. It's a good idea to have a plan for undertaking something, to make good use of the opportunity.
Ginnie: That is an excellent point, and one I had not thought on, but it does make sense, as I tend to over analyze in any case. Thanks.Could be that the top line moving is saying you shouldn't spend a lot of time over-analyzing your feelings when there's work to be done. Also, "Whoever comes too late meets with misfortune."
I think you make a good point here, about the framing of the question. I think I will try phrasing it as you do, when I am in the proper frame of mind. Thanks!But you are making an assumption in the question itself....shouldn`t you have asked
how should I approach this pending cooperation with X?
Okie, will see if I can go beyond the gate of the yard! I must say, though, he is not exactly making it easy these days....Come to think of it, this line may be applying to X himself. Because as he seems both distant and presumptuous lately - almost arrogantly opportunistic - I find myself doing far less to advance this project, which is advantageous to him , and doing the minimum only. Perhaps he is the one who should go beyond the gate???60. Limitation
Line 2:
Not going beyond the gate of the yard.
Misfortune.
Limiting oneself too much, and by that missing opportunities.
OK, then I shall try my very best, to be more forthcoming and involved.You seem to be focused too much on what's wrong or deficient in his personality. What's wrong with other people is something we have almost no control over. As I read it, the advice of 60.2 was to be applied to yourself.
Yes, it does make sense. I think the whole situation evolved in a most unusual manner, and perhaps was not the brightest idea, but now that it is set in motion, YES, there should be a sober approach, and reasonable limitations. Agreed.May I just add that for me Limitation hex came to be about more different things, limited ways of communication, lost phone numbers, limitations due to misunderstanding or personal bounderies...
Since you asked about how you should approach, it is telling you to post some limitations but in a timely manner...from the difficulties at the beginning...could be that Yi is simply reminding you that there is a place and time for everything....if you are involved in work project together, perhaps flirting and too much romancing is not suitable in those moments? Kinda sensible, no?
Thanks, hopex for these apt and shrewd words. I have the message and meaning down pat. - OMG---does this mean you ARE getting Bruce????fox - I see no contradiction here - its an exact confirmation of
what your instinct told you - work on the project - then hold back
beyond work. Then the relationship increases.
Many people have this problem with work romance - by all means do your
work and get stuck in - but at breaks stand by water cooler demure - get
straight off when your days work is done.
In other words collaborate well - but switch in strictly your time to being
a mysterious romantic prospect to be pursued. Being with him all day is
enough - let him fight for your time after work - regards H x (Bruce is
visiting today to see how he gets on I have got to cook sausages for him
so he thinks its good )
Oh, *fingers crossed*---I really want to see this work out for you and Bruce. Please keep us posted on your Bruce thread. xx:bows:Thanks to your reply Foxx I had hope and went to see about him
- they love him as much as i do and an MRI scan could be 2000 GBP
- they like me believe the dogs home is getting to him and his behavioural
change is due to that. I think they are anxious to give him the option to
be homed - otherwise they would put him down rather than see him languish
unhappily - fingers crossed. X i will read all the replies hope you can see your
way on his one hugs
I have taken all your great replies and your own story very much to heart. Thanks so much!!!also 60.2 is just stay within the proscribed lines - adhere to
the set guidelines in work in life.
Sorry you do not want to work because it is advancing him - but
do a good job and you will be noticed in your own right. Blessings
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