Does this mean what I think it means??

[christeen]

Willow, you've been following my threads so you know best what I am talking about here.

I ask this morning "So far, there have been no signs from B which could be bad or good. But the Yi readings that I have done so far have always indicated a positive outcome for B and I. So, please set me straight. Please give me a picture of whether I am reading correctly".

The answer hex 31, Conjoining (Karcher), Mutual influence (Huang), INfluence (wooing) (Wilhelm).

Whadyasay???

 

[jesed]

Hi Christeen

Just in case the comment could be useful

Not every answer was pointing to a good outcome for you&B (at least, not in the way I undertood the answers). There was at least one answer that pointed the posibility of B and M would be a couple.

In that time, I said that could happen between 4 to 7 weeks.

In that time, that seems unrealistic, because M would be in other country during that frame-time

But now, B had travel to see M, isn't?

Now this answer (31) could be understood as: "you are understanding right, B and you would be like boyfriend&girlfriend"

But, in the way I see it, since the question was a qualification of your understanding of it's answers as good for B&you, 31 for me is more like: "your interpretation is influenced by what you want/wish" (core theme of 31)

Best wishes

 

[christeen]

Hi Jesed.
There have been lots of posts since the 'B & M' one. B is going overseas and its NOT to see M. This is a different M, unfortunate that its the same initial. The M that B is going to see is a male friend from way back. When I asked about B & female M, my mind was in a state of confusion and hurt. I no longer feel like that. In fact, I see female M as a 'rebound' for B's loneliness. Anyway, that is history now. Since then I have asked lots of different things and even posted some of them to get different opinions and they have been good, like I said.

I was worried that it was what you said in your post but I hope that you are wrong. I have tried to find negative (or less auspicious) meanings in my readings but they are not there.

I had a tarot reading about 6 weeks ago and this guy is very very good and very recommended by others and he said that I will have my answer withing this year. But the cards point to me and B getting back together. My dreams also tell the same thing. in an earlier thread, Yi told me that B's overseas trip will have a hex 51 influence on him.

Wish me luck, won't you?

Thanks.

 

[jesed]

Oh.diferent M's.... ok

Best wishes

 

[jesed]

Dear Christeen

I had followed your questions, but takin your last post seriously, i re-read them, assuming I had lost something.

The questions you had posted are:
1.- where could this thing with Brian and Marge lead?. 40>16
2.- how would my returning to dance (and being in Brian's face, literally, when I've been AWOL for 7 months) affect the situation? 21>24
3.- why do I have these persistent thoughts of B? 48>46
4.- what will happen to us if I give up on B ? 24.0
5.- what will happen to us if I still hold on to hope for B? 48.0
6.- what change to our situation could result from B's trip overseas? 51.0
7.- what will cause this shock 50>64
8.- what part does M play in this shake? 30>31
9.- how will B react to M? 48>2
10.- what is this lesson that I keep missing? 1.0
11.- How do I use this force? 4>35
12.- So far, there have been no signs from B which could be bad or good. But the Yi readings that I have done so far have always indicated a positive outcome for B and I. So, please set me straight. Please give me a picture of whether I am reading correctly. 31.0


(If I missed anything, please tell me)

From here, honestly:
a) I find none answer positive for a good outcome for you and B;
b) I find 5 answers negative for a good outcome for you and B (1, 3, 5 ,6 and 7)
c) I find 4 answers that advice you to made an inner work to return to your own path (2, 3, 4 and 5)
d) I find 4 answers that gentlelly point that you are not hearing what the answers talk about (2, 10, 11, and 12)

I do wish you the best. Of course, this is only MY interpretation. I can be off track here. But, whit this honest wish of good for you, I believe that this answers are congruent and good advices: instead of holding on to hope for B, go deeper in an inner work (48) to return to your own path (24).

In any case, best wishes

 

[willowfox]

Hi christeen,

"So far, there have been no signs from B which could be bad or good. But the Yi readings that I have done so far have always indicated a positive outcome for B and I. So, please set me straight. Please give me a picture of whether I am reading correctly".

The answer hex 31, Conjoining (Karcher), Mutual influence (Huang), INfluence (wooing) (Wilhelm).

This hex has to do with courtship, attraction and influence. B is influencing you, attracting you, at the moment. It is about bringing people together. Basically this hex is about what you want, but it is saying to you, don't get carried away with your thoughts and desires for B, keep your emotions still ,remain inwardly calm and be patient but remain hopeful and happy. Always listen to what others have to say about this potential relationship. Therefore, when you are actually dealing with B (face to face so to speak), always be sincere, open and modest with him, for this will please him, honesty goes along way. This story needs more time to grow, still early days yet, but I see both of you very slowly moving towards each other once again, mutual attraction.
Give it more time and be patient. B has not found his guiding light yet, he still in the shadows.

 

[christeen]

Oh Willow. You are so truly nice. Thanks for the umpteenth time. I hope that one day I will be able to help others like you have helped me. By reading these posts, I see so many souls out there who are not exactly lost but in need of solace and guidance. And some of you (especially you, Willow) have the knack of putting clarity into words that exude comfort and warmth and depth. My gratitude always.