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I did 4 castings in succession, and I will post below exactly the order in which I have cast them.
What are A's feelings for me (nowadays)? 26.1.2.5 > 15
What are B's feelings for me? 40 uc
What are my feelings for A? 56.3.4 > 23
What are my feelings for B? 40.3.5 > 50
What are A's feelings for me (nowadays)? 26.1.2.5 > 15
PG 26.1,2,5 gives 53: perhaps holding back for a long time, taking things in stride, or even, holding back from long-term behavioral patterns
just a couple of cents . .
40.3,5 > 50 looks lopsided also (it turns into 28)
I may just ask A what are his feelings for me the next time I see him, do you think he'd tell me?
I don't know, but people do like to know where they stand with someone important to them. It's a fair question, so long as it carries no guilt trip message or pressure with it. Kinda 40ish, not 21ish, nor 44ish. Lift burdens and inhibitions rather than create them, and he should level with you likewise.
Well, that's the thing. I am not sure I am all that important to him. There would definitely be no guilt trip, I can't stand that! however, this one is known for his proclivity for telling people [women] what they want to hear, so while no guilt inducement would be intended, there is no guarantee one wouldn't be spontaneously created within the subject itself and result in a less than accurate information being conveyed. Tbh, if I want to know the truth about this one, I am better off asking the Yi.
I've not read all the thread PG....but have the urge to point out what you must already know, which is that people tend to show their real feelings more than tell them. It's not what a person says their feelings are that really count in the long run is it..it's what they do. If people like each other they tend to find ways of spending time together. If this person (a or b not sure got lost here) is good to you, looks for you, tries to find was of spending time with you....then I'd say there's a good chance he likes you. If OTOH he makes a swift exit anytime you approach then it would seem he doesn't like you. (Women like to tell each other he may make an exit because he is 'afraid of his feelings'....but that's generally poppycock IMO...and if he were that afraid it would make things pretty untenable and wearisome wouldn't it.)
Answers on others feelings are so transient because feelings are transient. You feel differently at different times, so will they, so how fixed a 'snapshot' can Yi give and how much mind can you pay it ? . I think sometimes 'confusion' can enter when we don't actually want to see what someone's actions are saying, in friendship too.
I tried to look at the readings but doubt how helpful my thoughts would be because I feel only you can understand these answers, knowing the nuances of the interactions and so on.
hey PG,
I've been doing a lot of reading 26 lately, specially first 2 lines . . been getting it a lot about someone and I think I have a fair idea of it is about - it's a no-go situation in toto, one that it's wiser to put on the brakes instead of letting it take us on . . this would feel like an avalanche, most probably, not of the good kind
On the other hand, I've felt I've also embodied 26 in my attitude towards a loved one; there's lots of powerful feelings there but, so far, I've felt it'd be better to keep them self-contained (btw, after the 22 discussion, I 'm finding 'self-containment' to be a large part of having mountain as upper hexagram, just a side note here). Anyways, in my case, looking back on the whole thing shows some long-term patterns in my relating with said person that I'd rather not repeat . . So while there's tons of things going on there, I'm keeping things in self-preservation/self-protection mode. I know it doesn't sound much adventurous or exciting but that's the way I feels about it.
Sometimes, I think 26 is just a way of protecting your self from what you know could go wild or rampant - it's also a lot about learning from the past, personal or collective. It feels conservative - and maybe it is in some ways - but it's definitely not mild or lukewarm - is there something in this guy's personal, or your joined history that would make some distance look needed at this point?
As to 40.6, I just love the imagery there, I find it glorious: aiming in the purest way and getting the prey, replenishing all worries and anxieties AND all that tied to the new start of 64? - what's there not to like?
In the end, it's only relevant if I am hoping to have a relationship with him, which I suspect I don't, because every time we are together I am struck by the absence of any desire on my part to throw myself at him
Thank you for that rodaki! If I was reading this for someone else, I'd say off the cuff that the guy had the massive hots for the lady but held back because the fireworks may just prove to be lethal
Cause, you know, you began this line of query to find where your emotions begin and others' end but the thing is, with emotions, the line can get so blurred, as, often, there's not really a dividing, but a connecting line, linking all of it together, influences going back and forth . . So what A feels may be just as influenced by your energy as much as yours is influenced by A's
. . see what I'm saying?
He doesn't recognise your true heart - do you? - Liss
So, it's clearly me, I am doing something wrong, what is it? 49.3 > 17
That seems to be a key reading in my view. If you disengage for a while and stop trying to understand, let your emotions subside and just try to be you, then clarity will arrive. I know that's not a very satisfying answer but it's often what's needed in these situations...(Oh the stories I could tell..lol)
17 says follow and adapt to the situation.
I really sympathize with the "frenzied seance of questions" . That can definitely lead to gritted teeth.
You might want to ask: How can I best resolve my confusion regarding X and J?
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