He stopped talking to me and unfollowed 25 to 45

[Medusazul]

Good morning group!
I have had a recent abrupt ending of a quite intense relationship. We have been quite disconnected lately. I feel he has been withdrawing a lot, and he has perceived me as being needy and "damaging his self-esteem" because of saying "all the time" what he does wrong. Finally, he stopped talking to me and unfollowed me on social media. It's quite shocking since he has always told me about being honest, open, and talking things through. I mean, we are in our late forties, for christ's sake.
So... I asked, why is he behaving like this, and got 25.1.6>45.

Then I asked, what shall I do about it? And got 17.1.3>31.

Any advice? I seem to get it right when I read about others' readings, but it's really difficult to understand mine. Maybe because I'm too biased.

Thanks for the advice and for your precious time!

 

[rosada]

Both lines 1 and 6 suggest he is behaving like this because he wants to be 25. Free of Entanglements in the
45. Larger Group. (Seems to be describing his unfriendling you on social media!)
So it seems to me your relationship was getting more personal than he was comfortable with and ultimately he just didn’t want to be involved.
As to what you should do..
31. Letting it be known you are open to hear from him.
17.1 sounds like it wouldn’t be wrong to send him some sort of apology and invitation to reconnect (Like, “I’m so sorry things I wrote came across as being less than helpful! I enjoy our friendship tremendously and I so want it to continue. Please take good care of you and please write again - in this lifetime or the next!”).
17.3 If that doesn’t get a response then you have to accept that he’s not ready for this close of a relationship. Let him go. You’ll make new friends.

 

[Medusazul]

Both lines 1 and 6 suggest he is behaving like this because he wants to be 25. Free of Entanglements in the
45. Larger Group. (Seems to be describing his unfriendling you on social media!)
So it seems to me your relationship was getting more personal than he was comfortable with and ultimately he just didn’t want to be involved.
As to what you should do..
31. Letting it be known you are open to hear from him.
17.1 sounds like it wouldn’t be wrong to send him some sort of apology and invitation to reconnect (Like, “I’m so sorry things I wrote came across as being less than helpful! I enjoy our friendship tremendously and I so want it to continue. Please take good care of you and please write again - in this lifetime or the next!”).
17.3 If that doesn’t get a response then you have to accept that he’s not ready for this close of a relationship. Let him go. You’ll make new friends.

Thanks so much, Rosada, for your always kind advice. He was my boyfriend, not just a friend
I feel pretty hurt too, so I don't know about wanting his friendship because I find his behavior unsafe for my heart... But I'm absolutely sure about not wanting things to end this way.