Hex 23.1,5 into 42 how to communicate

[dragona]

Hello everybody :bows:
as short as I can..met this friend online and I like him well enough to try to deepen our friendship. He is very opened and communicative as a foreign, different tempered man can be but started to flirt with me in a way I am not ready to respond, if you know what I mean...they do it a lot there but I would rather go for a more quality friendship with him. He does it in a casual, smooth kind of a way so I cannot really get very upset, just don`t want to take that turn there.
So I asked what do I need to know of his intentions? hex 27 unchanged
What stand do I take towards him in order to achieve progress wanted?
hex 23.1,5 into 42
Cannot get the idea of how to act on daily basics from line 23.1 because it suggests to stop and observe (as Nourishment 27 does), while line 5 seems to give an auspicious outcome?
23.Po indicates that (in the state which it symbolises) it will not be advantageous to make a movement in any direction whatever.
1. The first SIX, divided, shows one overturning the couch by injuring its legs. (The injury will go on to) the destruction of (all) firm correctness, and there will be evil.
5. The fifth SIX, divided, shows (its subject leading on the others like) a string of fishes, and (obtaining for them) the favour that lights on the inmates of the palace. There will be advantage in every way. (Legge)
So how to get from line 1 to 5? Does it simply say in overall to wait and see, watch my mouth also - things will level down?
Maybe someone can enlighten me, thank you:bows:

 

[dragona]

Am I asking something silly or naive? Basically, just an clarification of 23.1 would help, I like talking to this man.

 

[tifa]

All right,
let me try.

Hex 27 does suggests he is seeking for more information about you.

Hex 23.1.5>42 I would not view this as auspicious lines. Hex 23.1 suggests this man has ulterior motives. Hex 23.5 you should not spend too much time on this man. There is a line of guys waiting to chat with you. Hex 42 split your attention from him and you will experience an "increase" to available men out there.

 

[dragona]

Owww... how common.
"There is a line of guys waiting to chat with you." Is that a promise?
He lives in a country I am interested in and he likes to talk about everything, so wanted to ask his oppinions and maybe even help.

 

[tifa]

Just a suggestion,
you might want to ask Yi whether it is a wise move to look for ideal partner through the internet.

T

P.S: I have no judgement against or for looking partnership through internet. It is just that some are able to work while some turns out to be disaster. You should act in your best interest.

 

[dragona]

Thank you, did ask once something simillar and was told to be careful about it...I have to stay in for most of the time, so too much time spending on the net, so common these days ...not very creatively.:bag:
However, I would like to move abroad maybe, met a few decent people on the net, too.
This man I am not interested romanticaly in. He had a sad love story in the past and clames to be very careful and slow in choosing his future partner. So I thought it would be safe to be friends.

I recently updated 2 old threads (as nothing in my life seems to move foreward anyway) but ppl did not comment on them
The last post here was auspicious imo http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=12190&page=2
:hugs: