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Hexagram 10.1>6
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10.1 Keep on keeping on.
50.4 Distrust. Feeling of relying on someone who failed them.
50.4 Distrust. Feeling of relying on someone who failed them.
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It is not easy to decipher exactly what the readings are saying without more information about what is taking place now or what has recently taken place. For 10.1 the advice is to continue on but keep it simple, stick to the basics. Seems to suggest you don't have much ability to influence him. If there are small things you can work on, then do so.
For 50.4 (depending on what has happened exactly), it seems you may not see the reality of the situation between you and him. Perhaps you feel this a big weight on your shoulders. After reading through both lines, I get the idea that either the problem is not as big as it feels OR perhaps the relationship has already ended?
If you are still together, then it seems you need to carry on, keep it simple. It may not be as bad as it feels. Work on the basics, no need to over reach. However, if the relationship has ended, it seems you need to accept reality for what it is and carry on with life. Either way, it seems he has the final decision here. And you should not submit to a point of losing your own dignity.
10.1 can be like, "I'm sorry I did this, I will be sure not to do this again, and instead I will do this" and then its done with. You stick to your word but you don't worry about it anymore. You continue with daily life as normal.
50.4 can be like making a mountain out of a molehill. "Oh geez this is dreadful, how will I ever get up this mountain." And then deciding you just don't have the energy for it. Especially now that you've used the last bit you had getting all worked up over it.
But again, it all really depends on the current reality.
Hope that helps, best wishes on your journey.
For 50.4 (depending on what has happened exactly), it seems you may not see the reality of the situation between you and him. Perhaps you feel this a big weight on your shoulders. After reading through both lines, I get the idea that either the problem is not as big as it feels OR perhaps the relationship has already ended?
If you are still together, then it seems you need to carry on, keep it simple. It may not be as bad as it feels. Work on the basics, no need to over reach. However, if the relationship has ended, it seems you need to accept reality for what it is and carry on with life. Either way, it seems he has the final decision here. And you should not submit to a point of losing your own dignity.
10.1 can be like, "I'm sorry I did this, I will be sure not to do this again, and instead I will do this" and then its done with. You stick to your word but you don't worry about it anymore. You continue with daily life as normal.
50.4 can be like making a mountain out of a molehill. "Oh geez this is dreadful, how will I ever get up this mountain." And then deciding you just don't have the energy for it. Especially now that you've used the last bit you had getting all worked up over it.
But again, it all really depends on the current reality.
Hope that helps, best wishes on your journey.
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What can I do to restore his confidence?
Big speeches and promises aren't effective. The best thing you can do is to go ahead with life and not keep referring to this rupture. Perhaps overtime you will be able to create a new impression.
What is he thinking [concerning me]?
Like a pot that broke, the trust between you has broken.
I hope this explains my post more clearly,
Rosada
Big speeches and promises aren't effective. The best thing you can do is to go ahead with life and not keep referring to this rupture. Perhaps overtime you will be able to create a new impression.
What is he thinking [concerning me]?
Like a pot that broke, the trust between you has broken.
I hope this explains my post more clearly,
Rosada